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Something’s not right

not coping

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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Sending you love @outlander 😔💕🙏

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Dear @outlander ,

i am sorry you have been so sick and in hospital. I do hope it doesn’t turn out to be serious and that they find what is causing this.

do make sure that you drink enough fluids even though you find it hard.

How is everything else going?

my thoughts are with you

peri x

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Good morning sis @outlander

Hoping you feel a little better today.

My thoughts are with you hon.

Lots and lots of love and hugs 💌💌💌💌

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@outlander

💜💜❤️

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Thanks @Peri @Snowie @Eve7 @Anastasia @Bellarose75 @Sans911 @Appleblossom and everyone

Still no better at all, been to drs whose ordered 2 urgent tests as in he would like them done tomorrow. He said though to go back to emergency if i need to esp since the medications arentworking, cant eat except maybe a piece of toast if im lucky, cant sleep, cant even drive the car because it makes me more nauseated and even the slightest bumps can cause way to much pain.
I dont want to waste hospital resources so im hesitant to go back in

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@outlander

So many physical and emotional things stacked up against you.

Dont push it with driving, as I guess you have to do a lot of it at high speeds.

Hugs Apple

Brave Heart Outlander

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Oh dear @outlander that doesn’t sound good at all.

I hope these tests give you some results quite quickly.

💜💜💜

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Thank @Appleblossom @Eve7
Waiting for places to open to ring for the appts. Ive already redone bloods this morning so just one to go which can take up to 2 hours 🤦‍♀️ hopefully they csn fit me in today

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@outlander I hope you get some answers today hon and that you are feeling a bit better.

You have been through so much lately.

You are not wasting hospital resources sweetheart, you are just as important as anyone else that needs support.

Here with you sis through all of this 💞💞💞

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Hugs and love @outlander 🙏💕

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