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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Hey @outlander

Hoping today has been a little better then the previous days.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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hey @Snowie how are you today?

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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I am okish @outlander

Took S and nephew to see a movie. Picked him up from his mums house so thankfully I didn't have to see brother. Just got back home, pj's on and cuppa made. Settling in for the night. D still at work.

It is hard having him here b/c he is a constant reminder, but I didn't want to say no to S.

How has your day been hon?

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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oh what movie did you see? @Snowie is your nephew at home now or is he staying at your place?

i have tried to make my day a little productive but ive been having alot of pain in my teeth where the nerves are damaged. it also causes bad headaches that make me squint and stuff too so its kinda spoiling it

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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He is staying at our house for the night @outlander

Sorry to hear the pain is still there hon. It seems like it is constantly there for you. I wish there were some answers.

Have you got anything planned for tomorrow at all?

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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It is always there, it just gets worse when it flares or has a moment @Snowie and very minor things set it off, even a breeze on my face sets it off.

Horses tomorrow ans just have the girls. Think thats pretty much it. What about you

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Have got ect in the morning hon so an early night for me tonight @outlander Other then that just doing some things around the house.

That must make it hard for you hon, that the smallest thing can set it off. I hope you are able to get some answers at some stage.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Sounds like an easyish day at least with nothing planned anyway @Snowie

Yeah it does take it toll for sure and that's only one chronic ailment unfortunately so im forever having to manage things. Pain meds havent helped at all so will try a shower soon might help the headache abit.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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@Judi9877 i cant rememner which thread it was we were talking on about goal setting but im still happy to help you with some ideas if youd still like

@Snowie i think you may have gone to bed so ill say sweet dreams to you. I hope you can get some sleep and tomorrows ect goes ok too

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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@Anastasia are you alright?
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