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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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SnowieSenior Contributor14 Apr 2021, 6:10 pm AEST

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Good evening @outlander

How are you going tonight?

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outlanderSenior Contributor14 Apr 2021, 6:18 pm AEST

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just talking to counsellor on helpline @Snowie honestly cant make some decisions that need to be made about some the treatment option but seems like even they dont know.

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SnowieSenior Contributor14 Apr 2021, 6:25 pm AEST

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I hope it helps even just a little @outlander Well done for reaching out for help hon, I know how hard that can be at times.

Will be sitting here with you if you need some extra support 💕

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outlanderSenior Contributor14 Apr 2021, 6:29 pm AEST

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thanks @Snowie nothing rally gained atm

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outlanderSenior Contributor14 Apr 2021, 6:45 pm AEST

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soo even a counsellor doesnt know how to help

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SnowieSenior Contributor14 Apr 2021, 6:52 pm AEST

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Sorry to hear @outlander

Can we do anything to help?

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outlanderSenior Contributor14 Apr 2021, 6:59 pm AEST

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i dont think so @Snowie not unless you can just give me a new face and nervous system

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SnowieSenior Contributor14 Apr 2021, 7:02 pm AEST

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Sorry to hear @outlander That must be hard trying to dealing with everything, especially if you are not getting any answers.

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outlanderSenior Contributor14 Apr 2021, 7:05 pm AEST

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Thanks @Snowie i think ill just sit here with you. Not in a good headspace at all

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SnowieSenior Contributor14 Apr 2021, 7:11 pm AEST

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Sitting it is @outlander

Just made myself a cuppa

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