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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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Sans911Senior Contributor12 Apr 2021, 9:32 pm AEST

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I actually cancelled a couple of things @outlander. I just wasn't feeling up to doing them.

So I spent the morning trying to put things away and tidy up.

I've got my car back. Drives like a dream. How did you go today looking at a car?

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outlanderSenior Contributor12 Apr 2021, 9:39 pm AEST

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Thats ok sometimes we just have to much in one day to manage @Sans911

I did have a look at one today but the car that was described and made out to be was definently not. It was a crapbox to say the least. Im not sure whether there was actually anything right with it 🤷‍♀️

Ive been able to borrow a car for tomorrows appointment. Not sure what to expect of this appt yet so abit nervous

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outlanderSenior Contributor12 Apr 2021, 10:09 pm AEST

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Care to site with us and have a cup of tea @Anastasia i can only imagine the stress and worry youd be feeling 💕

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AnastasiaSenior Contributor12 Apr 2021, 10:10 pm AEST

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Thank you. Not much company @outlander

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outlanderSenior Contributor12 Apr 2021, 10:12 pm AEST

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No words needed @Anastasia unless you want to. Just a cuppa and seat on offer and a hug too if itll help

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outlanderSenior Contributor12 Apr 2021, 10:14 pm AEST

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@Anastasia since he wont respond to messeges and his past, i would possibly reccomend ringing for a welfare check

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Eve7Senior Contributor12 Apr 2021, 10:24 pm AEST

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Cuppa s and hugs from me too @Anastasia @outlander @Sans911

💙🤗

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AnastasiaSenior Contributor12 Apr 2021, 11:10 pm AEST

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Thank you dear @outlander I rang. They are watching him closely xox

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outlanderSenior Contributor12 Apr 2021, 11:15 pm AEST

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@Eve7 💕

Im glad to hear @Anastasia i hope its a littlr peace of mind 💛

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AnastasiaSenior Contributor12 Apr 2021, 11:27 pm AEST

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All the best for tomorrow sweetheart 🤞🙏💞

@outlander

Thank you for being here for me tonight. It made a difference xox

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