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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor06 Apr 2021, 11:32 pm AEST

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Good @Sans911 its trickier when our time gap is so long

I havent heard of the nanny diaries. Sounds like a documentary on true stories of Nannying?

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Sans911Senior Contributor06 Apr 2021, 11:45 pm AEST

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Haha no it's not @outlander. It has Scarlett Johansson in it. It's essentially about a young woman finding her way in the world. It's a bit funny, sad, romantic and interesting. It was easy to watch. I got it free from a 'little library'. These are little wooden cupboards sometimes in the shape of a house attached to a pole. They're all about in the community. The principle is that you take one book and give one in return. It's a good idea. Sometimes it's not a good find but a few months back I found a first edition of The Thorn Birds. My favourite book so an exciting find.

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outlanderSenior Contributor06 Apr 2021, 11:50 pm AEST

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Well that guess was way off lol @Sans911 it sounds ok though, do you mind if i sit with you a while?

Oh yes we have those in some places here too. Theyre known as mini community libraries here. I dont read much but i donated a few to try and get a few more around the area. Im not sure how popular theyve been since theres 2 or 3 quite big actual libraries already.

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Sans911Senior Contributor07 Apr 2021, 12:13 am AEST

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Oh course you can sit with me @outlander. Some of our little libraries are right outside the main library, and they are still popular.

I'm trying to sort all my browser tabs that I had open on my phone. I had nearly 200!!!!! It's quite a process to sort them into groups, find out what I still want, and which ones need attention like applications for projects, courses, etc. I've downloaded them to my laptop.

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outlanderSenior Contributor07 Apr 2021, 12:41 am AEST

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Thanks sis @Sans911 💕

That is alot of tabs open!

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Sans911Senior Contributor07 Apr 2021, 12:56 am AEST

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Well I have cleaned up the tabs, sorted them into various groups but they still need further sorting. That's for another day. I'm done now. I'm going to take my meds and settle. It's a long day tommorow.

Are you getting tired now @outlander?

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Sans911Senior Contributor07 Apr 2021, 12:58 am AEST

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Hiya @Emelia8 if you're still awake. No need to respond. I'm just acknowledging that I see you.

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Emelia8Senior Contributor07 Apr 2021, 1:01 am AEST

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@Sans911 😄💕

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Sans911Senior Contributor07 Apr 2021, 1:18 am AEST

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Cheeky 😂😘👋@Emelia8!

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outlanderSenior Contributor07 Apr 2021, 2:22 am AEST

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@Sans911
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