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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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@Sans911 have you got any tattoos or piercings?

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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@outlander ok I'll tell you. My tongue. I got it done when I was about 21 and have never taken it out!!! Sort of used to it now.

D has already told me she is getting a tattoo when she turns 18!!! Can't really say anything since I keep getting them 😉

Hi @Sans911 💕💕

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Didnt it hurt? @Snowie and uncomfortable- well cant be to bad if you never take it out 🤔

Im not overly excited about getting a tattoo, to bloody scared of needles lol but if i got one it would only be small like to go on my wrist.

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Sans911Senior Contributor

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@outlander- uh nope. I did have my ears pierced when I was young, but I react to most metals so they are closed now. I don't have any tattoos either, but have been considering one on my inner wrist for some time now.

Tongue piercings?: @Snowie-sorry but ick!! My nieces have them too.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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I can only have stirling silver anything else i react to 🤦‍♀️ its a shame you react to all metals though

A tattoo on your inner wrist might be nice, thats where id get one too 😘 @Sans911

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Sans911Senior Contributor

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I'm OK with sterling silver @outlander. I have a Pandora bracelet that my sister recently gave me. It's a flat chain with 3 charms. My sister gave me a love heart charm & and my first initial. Then I bought a tree of life charm. And my foster sister gave me a silver chain with a pendant containing amethyst. My birthstone. Generally I wear little to no jewellery but these are very special.

@Snowie

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Oh so lovely @Sans911 sounds very pretty and special too

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Haha @outlander it was so long ago now I can't remember it hurting!!!

I have one of my tattoos on my wrist.

I don't mind the pain of the tattoo's, to me it doesns't really hurt just feels funny.

I am a bit of a wild child at heart but there will be no more piercings but more tattoos for sure 😉 @Sans911 !

Am watching Ambulance atm. I like these shows. Paramedics do such good jobs.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Lol @Snowie i can see you as abit of a wild child!

We are watching spongebob :face_with_rolling_eyes:

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Me too @Snowie re Ambulance. Switched to it after NCIS finished.

I could never have a nose or tongue piercing .. Ouch. If I were to have a tatt .. it would be on an ankle. @outlander @Sans911

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