Hi @Catcakes ...... I received a phone call just after you posted about caring dor your mother and you SO .... so wasn’t deliberately ignoring it .... but I understand it can come across that way .....
Caring for an elderly parent can be really tough. While my dad is still independent and lives in the country, my mother in law is much closer, but we have other family members to pitch in and help, and she is also still fairly independent. I have seen other people though, where elderly parents are needing virtually full-time attention, and as @Queenie said, that’s a tough gig .....
And for your SO as well ..... that’s my biggest area of concern in our circumstances, with a lack of insight on his part driving the issues ..... so I can empathise with you there too, so much. It creates an imbalance in the relationship that must feel very out of kilter too.
What @Former-Member is talking about in terms of “chat” and “call” are the Sane Help Centre .... there is a phone number somewhere there at the top of the page, and there is also online chat in-real-time email.
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