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Topic Tuesday / Fear; What would you do if you weren't afraid? **Closed**

Topic Tuesday / Fear; What would you do if you weren't afraid? **Closed**

Hi everyone,

There have been a lot of discussion about ‘fear’ in the Forums lately; what impacts, good or bad, it’s had on our lives and questions about how to manage it. So what better way to bring together our collective tips and advice for each other than to revolve tonight's topic around the emotion?!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2strQAiM0iA

Tonight we are focusing on ‘Fear’. There is a wide spectrum of different types of fear – so we may not get to everything tonight, but what I’m hoping we can get to tonight is giving a brief overview of ‘fear’, talk about our own individual experiences with fear, talk about some strategies to manage ‘fear’ and try and apply it to our own individual situations.

So to start off lets look at what fear is from a physiological and psychological perspective.

Fear is a primal instinct that served us as cave dwellers and today. It keeps us alive, because if we survive a bad experience, we never forget how to avoid it in the future.

Our most vivid memories are born in Fear. Adrenaline embeds them into our brains.

Today, fear still hovers around us, silently monitoring our environments. As sensory information enters the brain, it splits into two paths. One feeds into consciousness, where we can observe and remember it. The other flows through the subconscious, where a region in the brain called the amygdala filters it for signs of danger. When a match is found, the amygdala can trigger an automatic response so quickly that we might respond before we're consciously aware that there's a problem.

So back in day fear kept us safe, gave us almost 'super human' skills to fight or flee, to manage threats like lions, tigers and bears (oh my!).

But now, those threats mostly don't exist... so we have to find a way to recognise what fear is and create strategies to manage our physical and psychological responses.

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Good talking with you all. This was my first visit to the Sane forums and it was great. See you another time 🙂

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If I didn't have these fears, I could live instead of just existing.

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if i wasnt a fraid.. i'd be able to speak and talk about me! instead of me being afraid.. the people who hurt me would be afraid instead... and I would probably be helping others who theyve hurt too... if..

im starting this week though.. even though im terrified, im going to speak out anyway.

lj

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@greenspace
Nice of you to join us. Please drop by and explore the rest of the community.
Tonight has been a very broad discussion so if you have something in particular you want to discuss, feel free to start your own discussion and invite people to share their thoughts, experience and/or advice!

Great to 'meet' you!

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If I weren't afraid I would be working - maybe as a mental health educator - and blogging and maybe writing a memoir. And I would be more relaxed when meeting people and particularly when interacting with anyone I was attracted by, so it would be more likely that I would be in a relationship.

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@NikNik - where would I start. So many hopes and dreams have been set aside - career opportunities have come and gone - in fact working hasn't been a realistic option (at least full-time) for the last 4 or 5 years. In all honesty - if I could wake up tomorrow morning and not carry the burden of anxiety with me - the sky would be the limit

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Lj & soul - even just sharing that and showing your vulnerability takes a lot of courage!

Lj - I think what you have touched on is exactly what I was referring to.... Fear may never leave us... but there are ways to learn skills to feel the fear and do what we fear anyways.

I think that's called courage!

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If I wasn't afraid I would get out and lead a more interesting life, knowing and appreciating more people face to face and feeling more connected to humanity.

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Ditto to Simply_me and greenspace - tonight you have shown a lot of courage in what you have shared.

Courage is a key skill to continually build to battle fear with.

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Thanks for the great discussion and moral support. Best wishes.

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