Good Morning!

..did you notice an 'I' in that statement? So how long did it take for you to get to this way of thinking? Are you seeing anyone/putting self/recovery first?
Ok yes, light spirits maybe re wedding ok 37% lol ... just li ive .. you.. there are bits here and there that suggest another previous life.. bit like me going to physio all sour faced the other week, yet, today I wasn't. And I got 10 plus times as much benefit.. tru to relax, ease off on crap thinking maybe .. then some form of clarity to make your own decisions maybe 😀 Yes, No Light. Beer. Ok cu at airport then centrelink for wedding 👰 😍👸❤️️💋Xxxx

Hi/bye @Faith-and-Hope 😎😎

Can't ease off crap thinking @TAB when I have had nothing to look forward to and no control over my life.The carers to me means that I have lost the battle.My mother suggested it six years ago when I couldn't get work,and my reply was "You'd have me right where you want me!",and I was right.I counseling,never again, basically let some idiot play with my life,which in the end left more trauma,and more negativity.Its a loosing battle baby.... unless I go to you to the other side of the country lol!😍

..uhh .. just get a job ..well as pretty anything unless you actually give two hoots for her .. <br>ok cu at airport .. guess you really have given up if coming here lolo @Former-Member 😘👸

..anyway.. I went thru the 'carer conundrum' @Former-Member and pretty sure I was with fairies when thought of it ok Aug last year. That is one thing I don't regret. Soz. @Former-Member

@Sans911 sanso .. ok the poor woman needs better advice than from me dunno

Sending love and hugs to you @Former-Member 💜💕
It is difficult being a carer for a family member, especially when you're not being treated the way you deserve.
I wish I could help rescue from your tough situation.
I was a full time carer for years 24/7, for family member. It does take over your life, I know.
I hope you can find some time to do something you enjoy or treat yourself to something. A massage or even something delicious to eat with a cuppa sometimes. Whatever you can think of that you'd like.
Watch a good movie with some yummy treats.
I hope you're not too depressed to do that, but I understand if you are.
Life can be really tough.
Keep sharing/chatting if it helps you.
I'm going to have to go off here now. I've taken a sleep med and my brain is almost asleep


Sending you a kaffe @TAB 😺☕🍰
Or something stronger? Jim???
Gosh I can't think or write now
Niiiiighty niiiight to you 2 and all.


Thanks for giving me a smile @Former-Member @TAB with your convos re marriage etc....
Keep in joking. Laughing is good medicine

Hey @Former-Member 😀✅ um looking for a bed here too very shortly. Um kaffee is fine, Thankyou . @Former-Member s got me suckered in with games lol then can't help caring about stuff underneath oh well @Former-Member
I do hope you're okay @bella🙀 I have missed you.
Um anyway .. its late, well for me today .. I just kicked insurance job 'support' ie timber barely connected to carport for purposes of invoicing only, off.. well they have played around for 5 days now pretending to do stuff. Justt sick off it . Am sitting here having eaten
Bowl of supermarket soup, looking into night, about to go to bed night @Former-Member night @Former-Member .. sleeep ...😇

Plus its all serious re @Former-Member 😍 Can't you tell?? Ok bit of shared angst maybe, well if old people do angst lol @Former-Member ❤️️ Nite

In re:to "just get a job" @TAB ,I could choke,done everything including selling the family farm,losing money I put into it plus loss I can't describe, moved to a nearby city for six months with no success. No one will put me on here and my social anxiety with people who have upset me,I can't do it.I wouldn't be bin this position if I had power over it,and to get paid to look after your mother insults me.I wish it was easy to get a job.