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AdgeSenior Contributor
Good morning @Former-Member @Bimby2 @Former-Member @Faith-and-Hope & everyone.
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Shaz51Senior Contributor
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soulSenior Contributor
You're right @lovemyboys - it's his choice whether he wants contact with his father. It's important that your illfeelings towards your ex don't interfere with that relationship. I told my kids not so long ago the things that their father had done and how hard I tried to make it work. I had decided to stick it out until they had finished school putting my needs aside.
I got the feeling my kids thought my decision to leave was a bit rash but once I told them the history, they understood. My narcissist ex husband didn't take the decision well and then let loose on my daughter who he saw as a mini me.
My daughter doesn't hate him as such, just is completely indifferent.
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Shaz51Senior Contributor
good morning @soul, @Former-Member, @Former-Member, @Adge, @lovemyboys ![]()
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soulSenior Contributor
Try not to be so hard on yourself @Former-Member. We are our own worst enemy at times. Been there many times. Hoping things get better for you.
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Shaz51Senior Contributor
it's his choice., Yes @lovemyboys, @soul, it is hard though
My mum and i left my dad when i was 12 years , as he was mentally abusing me , i was getting sicker and sicker and lost so much weight until we left because of our health -- I didn`t know that mum was very sick too and to find out what she went through before we left
mum always spoke ok about my dad and she said it was up to me if i wanted to see him , I thought i would so i went to visit him and me pushed me hard into the wall and then when he saw me down town he would hide behind a tree or jump inside a shop
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