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Missed that re trip @MDT have a good trip 😀 .. holiday mode can be good for meeting people btw, preconceptions can get left at home 😳😸
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TABSenior Contributor
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Kaffeeklatsch @Former-Member😸? .. ☕️🍰🍭😎🎩✅
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TABSenior Contributor
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Am in WA @Bubbles3 it you meant me re Morning. Good Morning 👋
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Having kaffe now @TAB Organic German kaffe good and strong. Need it to wake up. Couldn't sleep much last night. Heard family stuff, very unsettling. I don't want to hear anything or see them, ever. Anyway, will try and be positive, despite people trying to knock me down. 💪👋☕
Thanks for thinking of me @Bunniekins😊 I hope you have a nice time too. 🌷🌹🌸🌻🌺
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Lovely pic @Former-Member👋💟👍
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TABSenior Contributor
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Nice 👍@Former-Member re coffee ☕️ um yeah Ican so relate to family thing. Also have been stunned at mine's words/actions. Can't go there. I try not to think about them. Well not really working atm re xmas. Surely they could just do the same as in not think about me?? 1 1/2 lol of 4 remaining sorta on my side ok 1/2 of one maybe after niece offered to spill on the one I thought didn't hate me. Well 1 claims they mean well yet acts opposite and as for last .. well no doubts there... ugh...
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Same here @TAB prefer not to think about family. I try my best to ignore it all, but sometimes it's thrown at me by force, if that makes sense. Always hearing unwanted news. I also wish they would forget that I exist, because that's how I cope, pretending that they don't exist. Have tried many times to be friends with them, but it always ends up in hurt. This time of year brings it all up again, as mother etc expect me to be there. Why don't they "get it". Not really a question😊 Just saying. 😀 They all know about the abuse traumas etc, but as far as they are concerned I should be over it. I am, apart from their constant demands repeated hurts.
I understand why you don't want to think about yours either, it seems to just reinforce the hurts. Good idea, let's not think about any of them. 😀
Have heaps to do today, not sure how much I can be on here, but will pop on every now and again.
What's happening in your day?
😊💪🐱
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TABSenior Contributor
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Yeah yes yep 😀 its like why can't you be like us ok how you are is entirely your fault. Guess I buy into it by trying to keep contact. Anyway done with that. @Former-Member um just realised if doing any shopping b4 xmas prob should do today plus a few other 'shoulds' well I paid a few bills before and am shaved and showered haha Well keeping busy good for you I guess. Hope it goes well. Just gotta get moving here
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