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when is it time for hospital

when is it time for hospital

when do you find its time to go to hospital?

im debating whether its the right move for me

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I hope it's good news to my friend @outlander.

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Hmmm what to do or more so how to do it. .

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hellllloooooooo @outlander

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@outlander - are you able to tell us now what we have been staying tuned for since your tag earlier today?

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Im just finalising earlier @CheerBear do soon just one more thing to do then i can tell you

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Hello @Shaz51 🤗

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I can tell u though it is good news

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so FINALLY son GOOD news!

So remember how I was telling you guys about a horse I was going to look at?
Well we finally were able to arrange a time that both suited us which was very quick and that was today.
So I went and I tried her and ive decided to take her.

I did weigh up the pros and cons of this which were

PROS
itll give me another reason to live
something else to focus on rather than inside my head all the time
where she is it can be MY special place to get away from everyone and everything


CONS
she will require more feeding and an increase in finances because of the tlc requrired and the general care they need
she will require more of my time
she will require more TLC than the other horses
She wont be located in the same place as the other horses so will have to travel to 2 different properties each day
Will have to get another Job
I have her for 6 months on a lease and then be reviewed and If it works out then I sign the owner papers and she will be mine, if not she takes her back and my work on her goes to waste


Now while the cons outweigh the pros, I think ive made the right choice to still decide to take her on. 6 months isnt a long time and im sure itll work out which means all the work I put into her wont go to waste. I think the main thing that has swayed me towards getting her is the fact that its something to get me out of my usual relentless responsibilities schedule, so something to look forward to and put my energy towards. Instead of being Destructive BE constructive. Having being able to get out of the relentless work- to me when I look forward to my horses they arent work and to me this isnt work- it gives me another postive reason to live. Even though ill have to travel more where the new horse is itll be my time and my special place without my naggin mother and sisters.
Ill have to pick up more work BUT ive already worked that out. Ive found that I often have a few free hours in the day and can increase my paddock cleaning hours and ive already had a few hits for next week. They are aware that if I get a phone call from my pop he comes first and they are happy with that as they only pay by the hour by every hour is a few more dollars in the pocket towards the new horse so it kinda doesnt make a different to my finanaces. Ive worked out if I do 5 hours of paddock cleaning each week then it pays me expenses for the new horse plus I have spare to put away as savings for like when she needs her feet done teeth and their general care. So... so far its working to my advantage lets hope it stays this way hey

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That's so exciting @outlander! Super happy for you and it sounds like you've really thought about this decision. I LOVE the idea that you have something special for YOU for a change! Yay 🙂

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That's so exciting! I'm glad you will have a special place just for you and your new horse. Sounds like you have really thought this through logically by listing he pros and cons and weighing everything up. Well done, proud of you girl 🎉
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