outlanderSenior Contributor
when is it time for hospital
when do you find its time to go to hospital?
im debating whether its the right move for me
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outlanderSenior Contributor
when do you find its time to go to hospital?
im debating whether its the right move for me
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outlanderSenior Contributor
they dont want it like that either @STORMGRL101 they want me to tell them in person. i have written a letter to my mum before trying to expain something but it got put in the bin with no response and her ignoring me for a few days.
i have no where to go, if im not at home then im in my car by myself usually sitting in a car park out of sight
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ethSenior Contributor
Thinking of you @outlander. You are strong. You have survived so much. I wish I could help you IRL.
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OwlunarSenior Contributor
I know what that feels like @outlander
My mother wouldn't talk to me for weeks and sometimes I didn't even know what I did was wrong - which is a really hard way to avoid doing whatever it was again.
I know you feel as if you have to tell them - but you have - and that's obviously making it better in one way but harder in another - so - stick to your guns and don't give them that script - I think you can get another one if you need it - yeah?
I think your mother is making a couple of huge errors here - she needs her bf to back her up and they do not know the best for you - they don't know everything - and they are not always right
I don't think you have told her you were abused did you. I guess you are pretty sure this would not be believed and would make it all worse for you - but one thing you can tell her is that this treatment - whatever way they do it - is not good and not necessary - you are an adult and deserve better
I am on your side - I wish I could really have your back
Dec
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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OwlunarSenior Contributor
Her choice
You could tell her that while it's quiet
btw - what a control freak!!!!
Dec
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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ethSenior Contributor
Hoping you can get through this @outlander. Thinking of you.
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OwlunarSenior Contributor
I'm getting a headache waiting - ah - I can hardly type
Tell her to suck it up @outlander - it's pathetic she needs her bf's support - wow - I never waited for my husband to deal with the kids -
Thinking of you
Dec
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