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Dealing with a problem creatively

PeppiPattySenior Contributor10 June 2015, 8:36 pm AEST

Dealing with a problem creatively

Dear Lee,

Everyone

@kato

@SimpleAsThat

@Jacques

@Loopy

@redhead

@Chris
Haven't forgotten about you or anyone here.
Am caring a lot for my dear friends here......
I just don't have much emotional reserve.......
I'm having to address something very hard and I've decided to move quickly.....
It's taken lots out of me but my GP is really helping me and a policeman came to my home on an unrelated matter on Sunday and has asked me to contact him.
The policeman visit was certainly bizarre but .........welcome. It was like an angel up above touched him on the nose while he was driving down the street and he decided to drop in.........

My stalker is back. I don't have any energy to push him out of my home and he puts me down, criticises, criticises. It's too shocking to write what he calls me.

My mum has said just call the police! Just kick him out!
I say to her, to others.....' but he's told the police I have MI and they have called me and yelled at me for wasting their time! I can't.....I feel there's blocks for me everywhere.'
I'm up front that I need a lot of support but this is really awful. So, I've got 3 or 4 days to run around and get letters written for me.
I've found someone to move me and the angel of good stuff is holding my hand so I'm not obvious and patting me on the head when I go to sleep.

Thanks for reading xx @Ellie
@kristen
@allexandra1992

I went to see my GP this afternoon and begged her for help. She's written letters to get me. Moved via department of housing.

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Troubled_OneSenior Contributor16 June 2015, 9:53 pm AEST

Re: Being misstreated

Anne, just remember I really understand you, and take your time.

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PeppiPattySenior Contributor17 June 2015, 11:34 am AEST

Re: Being misstreated

Dear Lee,

I've been thinking about your lovely message on and off last night. thank you so much for it. Yes, you do know me and I'm happy knowing this. The message made me feel un lonely.
I'm able to write now but what do you do when Ypur being manipulated so much to change how you think......actually, is this what your going through ??

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Troubled_OneSenior Contributor17 June 2015, 12:50 pm AEST

Re: Being misstreated

Hey Anne, yes this has been exaclty what has been happening to me.

These sane forums you don't know sometimes that the problem may be from here.

I have noticed that my communication from the beginning of this thread has been missguided.

But your help has been great.

I am talking to my brother tonight.

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PeppiPattySenior Contributor17 June 2015, 12:59 pm AEST

Re: Being misstreated

Dear Lee,

I'm going to be honest in that it is very easy to think that advise is misguided because things are changing all the time. I didn't message for about 2 weeks because I felt that IdE been lying on sane forums because 'things were hanging so much.

I'm going to message what's been happening in my life tonight when my head is clearer.

Your situation is easy for me because my friend ;

All that matters is your brother and you.
You are more evolved than family.
But not your brother.
:0)

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Troubled_OneSenior Contributor17 June 2015, 1:48 pm AEST

Re: Being misstreated

anne, yes you are right.

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PeppiPattySenior Contributor17 June 2015, 1:53 pm AEST

Re: Being misstreated

@Troubled_One,

Lee my friend.......if you read all your wonderful conversations again.....then look at the page that you just wrote down the steps that you took without saying thank you to anyone but just wrote it, you would see that nothing has been wrong in others advice, just that everyone. That has given you advice have gotten you to see things in a like.........wider, different way which is really really good.
This is what I'm also dealing with. Once.......the stalker was sort of.......bending my mind in thinking like he does but @kristin put me right by reminding me that he drowned my last dog..........

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Troubled_OneSenior Contributor17 June 2015, 2:23 pm AEST

Re: Being misstreated

anne, jesus that sounds not good.

yeah that is what i mean.

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Troubled_OneSenior Contributor17 June 2015, 2:45 pm AEST

Re: Being misstreated

and anne i really understand about your family, what you are going through, i kinda feel the same, but I am talking to my brother tonight and me and my father might be going to up to my mothers to see her tomorrow.

Hope everything is ok with you.

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Troubled_OneSenior Contributor17 June 2015, 3:27 pm AEST

Re: Being misstreated

oh yeah anne, i am wasted to.

My energy levels are at as low as they can get. I get no rest at my fathers, I am too scared to close my eyes and rest. Everything is just so wrong i only rest when i sleep and that has not been good lately.

I am just hoping that tomorrow something good happens, and a littl ebit of the battle is lifted off my shoulders.

Take care. lee.

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PeppiPattySenior Contributor17 June 2015, 9:26 pm AEST

Re: Being misstreated

Dear Lee,

I'm concerned about you. You have been working very hard about yourself.
A lot is expected of you

And you give support to others online.........your not even 35 years old.

I've got some good things to write to you about myself......I may am being offered a bigger home in an expensive area in Perth......but please message first how you are.

Would you think of calling Lifeline?

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