DeterminedSenior Contributor
Diary of wifes hospital stay - holding it together for our family
Started a new thread here @soul rather than fill up the hot choc thread.
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DeterminedSenior Contributor
Started a new thread here @soul rather than fill up the hot choc thread.
In response to: Diary of wifes hospital stay - holding it together for our family
soulSenior Contributor
Did you mention that you had finished a draft of your assignment?
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DeterminedSenior Contributor
@soul wrote:So this study you are doing would lead you into a different field?
My last 'real' job was a sales role, the stuy I am doing (marketing) i am hoping will diversify that experience.
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soulSenior Contributor
Getting that degree will certainly open up some new opportunities for you. Are you enjoying the study? Does it give you something different to focus on at the very least?
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DeterminedSenior Contributor
I was suposed to have the draft of my assignment completed today but not even close. Just going to do what I can tomorrow and want to do somthing with the boys Sunday. We can go to the beach in the morning and visit darling in the afternoon.
Essential that I get this report done to the best I can tomorrow. I have until wednesday now but dragging it out is only making it harder than it needs to be, i just need to do what i can and accept that that is the best I can do this time around.
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DeterminedSenior Contributor
I do actually love the study @soul, thats why it is so hard when I achieve so far below my expectations. The work is not actually that hard if I can focus.
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soulSenior Contributor
Good idea. Don't let it drag on too long. Just do it (thanks Nike) and hand it in. Great that you are planning on getting out and about with the boys. It's lovely weather to enjoy some fresh air. It will do you all a lot of good.
I hope you're feeling a bit better.
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soulSenior Contributor
I'm going to clean up the kitchen and have a shower. I'll check in from time to time over the weekend. Go watch a movie or read something light. Tomorrow is a new day. Sending good thoughts your way @Determined.
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DeterminedSenior Contributor
Feeling a lot better thankyou @soul
Talking has been a huge relief, dont know what happed before, thought I was doing ok (far from great but definatly ok) but was suddenly overwhelmed after a text from mum asking hows things going...
Hate feeling like that but it gives some insight into how my darling feels all day every day 😕 she has done well to last as long as she has.
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DeterminedSenior Contributor
Thanks again @soul it has meant a lot.
Might do some cleaning myself.
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DeterminedSenior Contributor
@Former-Member wrote:@Determined
I have no experience with children and Mr Darcy's personality disorder is NOS so doesn't have borderline but I so wish there was something I could do to help you Bro.
@Former-Member
You have provided me (and mant others) with some wonderful insight since I have been here, you were one of the very first to respond to me when I first arrived in a state of panic providing me with some clarity of thinking, that has been a huge help. Thankyou. ☺
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