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im back..... i think

im back..... i think

hi @Former-Member @Determined @Anony18 @soul @Faith-and-Hope

i was lil-caterpillar

im back... i think...

im treading very very lightliy at the moment

@Anony18 i also seen those pics you posted from your hike. they were beautiful and also the artworks too thank you for thinking of me

F&H - i also read on my depression thread as well. thank you for careing even though i left

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@outlander .... remember that when people have posted on a thread, they receive notifications for that thread use, whether they have been tagged or not, so I have been picking up the other thread too .... it's okay .... it might help you to know that you don't have to keep tagging people when you change threads if they are on both threads anyway ....

People who have reduced their notifications will usually let you know that, but they will also ask you to tag them personally if they want to keep in close touch with what is going on in your life. Otherwise they will likely be following along at a bit of a distance, still interested and caring, but protecting their own state of feelings, and state of mind.

I have to do that a bit, so when I am not answering to every tag, or responding to every post, it's not that I don't care, or I am not following along, I am just cushioning my own state of being.

I have been here a year now @outlander, and I have naturally grown closer to some people than others, for a whole variety of reasons, so they are my first go-to when I see them pop up in a sometimes very crowded Inbox where I have to prioritise a bit .....

Just thought I would mention it to you because I think that may have been one of the things you were feeling a bit insecure about. You are much cared for here @outlander, but it can take an awful lot of time and energy to to keep up with everyone in the minute, so a lot of us only pop in once or twice a day when we are really busy irl, or feeling overwhelmed.

Gently, gently .... you're doing fine ..... 🤗💙💕

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yes @Faith-and-Hope i was very insuecure about the taggin thing but i know now and im being as mindful as i can with it thats why i only tagged you on this thread rather than both threads so am trying to be mindful of that as well now that im aware of it. i forgot people got the notifications wven if i didnt tag them as well. im abit the same way too, im closer to some more than others as well and feel drawn to respond to them first as well

but yes trying my best, still very nervous about being on here so being very careful atm

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@outlander - all that @Faith-and-Hope said is so true. When you first come on it can be overwhelming. From knowing you thus far you seem like a really caring person for others who you don't want to seem rude by not responding. I may be wrong but that is the sense I get off you. The forums at times can be overwhelming especially when you get notifications galore (as I like to call it) but look after yourself and your own mental needs. If you aren't really up for responding or need a day or 2 or more off the forums then do so. We all want only what is best for you and will understand. We are here as a family to hear you out and support you Definitely ease your way back into the forums.

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@Former-Member why did my msg get taken off here that i wrote to @Faith-and-Hope and @Anony18 not the one about the feeling nervous or the tagging the other one. i didnt find anything in there?

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yes im in hiding at the moment @Anony18 though i dont think im doing a very good job of it lol

my post that got removed expalined alot of thing none of which would ahve been offensive so jsut waiting to see where i ahve to modify it before i can repost it so just bear with me until that gets sorted

BUT i do have a postitive for today guys @Anony18@Faith-and-Hope@Former-Member@Determined@soul@Former-Member as of yesterday its been one whole month that i havent SH- and this is coming from them needing to have medical attention 🙂

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Ahuh @Shamrock its up thank you

@Faith-and-Hope @Anony18 re the long long post just before F&H tagging post

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All good just glad i found it

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Wtg re the no-sh @outlander ... woo-hoo ❣

You go girl .... 💐💙💐💙💐💕

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@Faith-and-Hope ❤ ❤ hows your headache now...? Not sure if u seen the long post or not just before your tagging post but i was asking how u were. Did u go for a walk?

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Hello @outlander

I have checked the rejected posts and none of your posts were in there for today, so I am unsure which post you are referring to that has been removed?

Lunar 🙂

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