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outlanderSenior Contributor
hi @Mazarita @Owlunar @Former-Member @Adge @Spookytookims @CheerBear @Former-Member @Shaz51
i was lil-caterpillar
im back..... i think.....
im just treading very very lightly at the moment
but id like to let you know that i have read what you wrote on my other threads and i appreciate your kind words and for thinking of me even after i left here 
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SpookytookimsSenior Contributor
just be guarded in what you say... or talk to someone else @outlander
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SpookytookimsSenior Contributor
@outlander I think the talking about the horse was just the ploy to get her into the conversation with you. Good that you have finished talking with her. I see red flags all over that one and you sure don't need more of those in your life.
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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I would be the last person to ask for friendship advice @outlander, I don't have any in real life and am only just starting to build them here 🙂 But I think the idea of friendship is that you are friendly to each other and feel friendly towards each other. From what your describing this person is not friendly toward you and you don't feel friendly toward them. You are under a lot of stress, when I'm under stress my brain seems to 'fire' quite differently, I see all sorts of conspiracies, am suspicious of everything and everybody and it feels like everyone is 'out to get me'. Maybe focus on the big hurdles first and then friends might be easier to understand. I also think it's important to like yourself, how can other people like you if you don't. If you like yourself enough, it might be easier to know which people you really like? I think I'm terrible at this advice stuff, but just want to say, I like you, enough to even feel a little Motherly towards you. I hope that's not offensive.
I'm heading off to bed soon. Good night, sleep well 🙂
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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Good Morning @outlander 🙂 It's a beautiful morning here, cool and crisp, not a smudge of white on a clear bright blue sky, with the gentlest of breeze softly moving the leaves in the crowns of the trees, the sun is shining and it's warmth caresses the skin 🙂
I'm thinking of you and wishing you strength, courage and love
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SpookytookimsSenior Contributor
@outlander You'll be fine... you are an outlander now... bravery is in your heart... oh hang on.. I may be confusing that with braveheart 😛 Nevermind. He seems like a quintessential outlander type though for the genre.
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