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outlanderSenior Contributor
hi @Mazarita @Owlunar @Former-Member @Adge @Spookytookims @CheerBear @Former-Member @Shaz51
i was lil-caterpillar
im back..... i think.....
im just treading very very lightly at the moment
but id like to let you know that i have read what you wrote on my other threads and i appreciate your kind words and for thinking of me even after i left here 
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OwlunarSenior Contributor
What happened with your appointment @outlander - and why do you feel embarrassed?
There is no need to feel embarrassed - but I am sure that most women have had tests on their girl-parts and felt weird - I know I have
So do you have your pelvic exam on Monday - I know that is going to be hard for you - I will try my best to hold your hand - imagine I am anyway
I will be thinking of you - and caring
Dec
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😄 I have the same tendency @outlander! Can you imagine it - this blubbering, dribbly, pale Cheshire cat, shaking in a corner 🙂 😄
One down, one to go . . . and this one - you've done it! Let yourself feel proud about that 🙂
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OwlunarSenior Contributor
Triplets I think @outlander and @Former-Member
You should be around me when I have to have a tooth out - or rather - the root of a tooth - I have lost a lot of teeth because of my bad bite - and everytime I freak out to a major degree and tell jokes non-stop - luckily I have a very good dentist
And I have female exams as well - and would not tell a male doctor if I had a problem - only the female doctor at my clinic - so I get it
So the three of us can twitch together over the weekend - just supporting you Outlander - oh dear - and men can be such sooks about it but we girls have so much more to bother about
About the steroid cream - I am wondering how that can help but maybe it will - I hope so - I think it might - I pray it will -
So I am thinking my best thoughts hard - very hard
Dec
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OwlunarSenior Contributor
I love the ocean @outlander
I was there a few weeks ago and really want to go back soon - I think I will go in July -
Dec - ah - this is a pic from near the motel where I was staying
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Thank you @Owlunar, @outlander, maybe one day I'll be brave enough to go to the Dentist (well I'm pretty sure pain will eventually make sure of that) I don't have internet on my phone, but I have a pretty active imagination, and I will make good use of it. I will be sitting in the middle, with one of you on either side of me . . . and I will then know I'm not the only weirdo in the waiting room 😄
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