Eden1919Senior Contributor
Safety
What do you do when you arent feeling safe but you dont want to go to the hospital and helplines arent working? Also what do you do when distractions and all of that stuff isnt working either?
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Sans911Senior Contributor
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@Eden1919 I understand it's complicated and I don't want you to hurt yourself because of them. I also understand you can't ignore them either, but you can't give in to their demands. So can you get it out if your head onto paper what they want? Write them a letter each, tell them you understand they want something of you, but you will not bend to their demand.
Eden, I'm asking @Former-Member to step in because I'm a little unsure how I can support and guide you, and I'm worried now about your safety.
Eden, I'm asking @Former-Member to step in because I'm a little unsure how I can support and guide you, and I'm worried now about your safety.
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Eden1919Senior Contributor
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I am sorry @Sans911 i didnt mean to worry you really i didnt. i was just trying to explain. anyway i just i mean i could write them a letter but they would just laugh at me or get mad that i thought i had the hide to tell them what to do. anyway i am sorry i just um i dont know and about tomorrow i dont know what i should do G wants me to lie to the crisis team about what is going on but S wants me to tell but S only wants to get rid of G so i dont know who to trust. ugh this is a huge mess.
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Sans911Senior Contributor
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@Eden1919 I worry about you in and out if the forums, like I do for others. And that is my choice to be worried or not. I just want to make sure I'm doing the best for you and me. And you've explained yourself very well, but like you say, it's complicated and I want to make sure I'm doing all the right things. I still feel it would be beneficial to write to them both, and if they laugh or get mad at you, that's there issues to deal with. And yes that would be unpleasant to have them treat you like that, but you could explain to them you are just trying to get some clarity over the situation so it's clearer in your mind.
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Eden1919Senior Contributor
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@Sans911 oh they have already made things very clear ..... I am just stressed that is all really stressed.
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Sans911Senior Contributor
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@Eden1919 ok, let's do something else to distract you (and me & maybe @Former-Member can join in with us). I saw you play a word game with @Zoe7. Can we do that instead? Shall I start with a colour and you have to name a vegetable ok. So I'm going with my favourite colour purple. Your turn and @Former-Member @Zoe7, if you want to join in feel free
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Eden1919Senior Contributor
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@Sans911 eggplant
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Zoe7Senior Contributor
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@Eden1919 Hey buddy. I can see you are doing it really tough today. I am waiting at my GP's but wanted to let you know I am hearing you and thinking of you.
Strength, courage, belief - it is very, very hard at the moment but you can get through this - you have the strength and courage - you are continually showing me this buddy now it's time for you to start believing it yourself
...sitting with you...
Zoe 💙💚💛💜❤
Strength, courage, belief - it is very, very hard at the moment but you can get through this - you have the strength and courage - you are continually showing me this buddy now it's time for you to start believing it yourself
...sitting with you...
Zoe 💙💚💛💜❤
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Unknown userMember
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Hi @Eden1919 and @Sans911,
Thanks for the shout out @Sans911, you're doing a great job at being here to help support and distract @Eden1919.
@Eden1919 I think continuing to chat here to distract from what is going on is a good idea. I have also sent you an email when your ready 
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Eden1919Senior Contributor
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@Zoe7 thanks and good luck with your gp appointment.
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Sans911Senior Contributor
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@Eden1919 arrgh that was my first thought. Ok- beetroot
