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A love/hate relationship with exercise

A love/hate relationship with exercise

Just wondering how many other people have the same experience that I do with exercise.

I try to go for a walk or jog every day-just half an hour.

I know that every time I go, I feel so much better afterwards. But it's still so hard to get myself out the door!

I have an iPod and I listen to talking books to keep my mind on something outside myself.

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Re: A love/hate relationship with exercise

Get a dog!!!! The guilt you feel if you don't take them out everyday for a run or walk is unbearable. Therefore it forces me to get out and do it. I'm glad I do though as it gets me out of the rut of my thoughts and gives me a break. It brings about Mindfulness, being in the moment. Something I have to practice, but it helps.

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Just to update this love/hate exercise...I have started walking again...even a long walk and in the end I decided it's walking with friends that may take a bit longer but is so much more fun than walking alone. Not that I don't love walking my dog but even the dog loves having a playmate to walk with😄 really enjoying the light in the mornings too..has anyone else found it a bit easier to get motivated when daylight starts earlier?

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Re: A love/hate relationship with exercise: PS I hate gyms

Hi butterflychaser,

From the moment I get inside the gym and a spraytanned anorexic 10-year-old who just barfed in their mouth at the sight of me tries to summon a smile and a cheery greeting.

As I appear in my workout gear and strong men faint. As I haul my sorry carcase onto the machines and the floor staff hover expectantly with the portable de-fibrillator.

I sweat and suffer and jiggle so much that seisomographs in Tokyo send out emergency alerts.

I hate gyms.

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Hi Allesandra,

In answer to your question about walking too slow I've found that when I stop to talk I can pick up a handy object. This can be a large rock, a dozen bricks, the dog you're walking, or even the person you're talking with.

Then, whilst holding the object with a firm grip, perform squats. Remember to replace the object when you resume walking. This is especially important with someone else's dog, or another person.

Happy walking!

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Too funny BG, I think I would fall over laughing if I tried to pick up my dog in one hand😄
And gym..well I used to love pushing weight but laziness won out...nagging mum is now regularly reminding me that she has osteo, and if I don't want it I had better start push-ups or some thing..

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Re: A love/hate relationship with exercise

I once was an athlete
I loved to compete

I was admired
I them retired

10 years passed
I'll now be coming last

I've returned to study
But I'm looking for a buddy

I'm studying fitness now
Motivation is how

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Re: A love/hate relationship with exercise

Really enjoyed your poem @Pippa . We got another member who @Happyness who writes poetry. Care to share some more of your work Happyness?

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Hi LAM,

I noticed your post about your love/hate relationship with exercise and thought you might be interested in this http://saneforums.org/t5/Special-Event-Mental-Health-Week/Mind-Body-Challenge-2/m-p/9477#M117

Well done on your walk and jog effort each day. It's an awesome habit to include in your daily ritual, like brushing your teeth.

Cheers,

Catriona

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Re: A love/hate relationship with exercise

BatGuano, that's hilarious.
I too find gyms terrible. I hear it works for many but for me hearing the crazy groans from the guys that have loaded themselves with roids and try to push another kilo whilst clenching their sphincter so hard you can see their eyes pop is too much. And if that's not enough, they have to parade in front of the mirror watching someone that looks just like them flash their guns. Too much.
Get out and smell the roses.

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Re: A love/hate relationship with exercise

The groans are so not inspiring and I dislike watching women's tennis on the TV nowadays for same reason..so I watch with a mute button..and some gyms are definitely more laid back than others.. They can be a fun place to people watch as seriously, it's a crack up watching people go completely over the top with their reps on the machines!!
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