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Tech support with hacked devices

LeoMinka2026New Contributor03 July 2026, 9:32 am AEST

Tech support with hacked devices

**Central Coast NSW

Hello,

My ex and I are no longer together. He was arrested and will apply for bail in 2 weeks - so for this limited time without any interference, I want to get control of my life as much as I can.

He is still in my devices and whatever programs he was running to hack and control everything are still there. This includes Swann home security system, phones, laptops. Passwords/emails changed, lost access to my email and previous mobile number (had for 12+ years).

Im flat broke currently as he lost me most of my cleaning contracts so I cant afford to get professional assistance. Ive been quoted an exorbitant amount of money or just told to do hard resets.

However, I cant get into any social/cloud accounts. I couldn't even access my bank accounts until 6 weeks ago. I still cant get into service NSW or MYGOV. The only photos I have left are saved to one device in particular.

Is there ANYONE out there I could contact regarding some free assistance as im not tech savvy but need to do this asap and also, I need to know who else is involved as it would take 2 people for some of the monitoring and updating to happen.

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In response to: Tech support with hacked devices

SmilingGeckoSenior Contributor03 July 2026, 10:02 am AEST

Re: Tech support with hacked devices

@LeoMinka2026 I've read about this form of domestic violence using technology to abuse a partner. These links in the article tell you what to do and where to get money to cover your costs so you arent harrassed by your expartner. This kind of abuse is becoming very common.

https://www.moneymag.com.au/get-help-fleeing-abuse

In response to: Tech support with hacked devices

wonderingalice1Moderator03 July 2026, 10:29 am AEST

Re: Tech support with hacked devices

Hi @LeoMinka2026

First welcome to the forums, and thank you for sharing a bit about what's been happening. I'm glad you reached out, it sounds like you've been through incredibly challenging situation. Everyone has the right to privacy including control of their own devices and accounts. Your safety and privacy are important.

In these situations, seeking legal advice and information can help understand what options may be available. A free service you can contact is Legal Aid-1300 888 529 9:00am-5:00pm Monday-Friday. https://www.legalaid.nsw.gov.au/contact-us

For additional support and information, and to connect with services in your area that can help with practical information, support, counselling and technology safety contact 1800RESPECT- Call 1800 737 732 available 24/7 https://1800respect.org.au/

I understand this can be a lot to navigate, our community is a safe space to connect with others. You are welcome here, and I encourage you to keep reaching out in whatever way that would be helpful to you right now.

Wonderingalice1

In response to: Tech support with hacked devices

TaaliSenior Contributor03 July 2026, 11:38 am AEST

Re: Tech support with hacked devices

Hi. @LeoMinka2026

While I don't have any practical advice for you I am here to say thank you for reaching out and sharing here.

You are certainly doing it tough at the moment, but kudos to you for standing up and looking for help.

You are welcome and supported here

Taali 💙

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