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Fluttershy1Senior Contributor
Feeling lost and confused, just wanna feel alright I want things to be the way they used to be. I keep getting let down by ndis support workers aswell and it’s breaking me. I’ve been to ER twice this week and I was trying so hard not to go.
changes are just triggering all together. It’s just hard. But still going with my coping skills.
am safe
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BunniekinsSenior Contributor
@captain24 i agree! i dont want to be a grandma to anything else then four legged fur babies! and i have told my children and thankfully they agree :) xxx
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BunniekinsSenior Contributor
@Fluttershy1 hi hunny a very busy day today. my mum is very sick and has been for some time so i have done a big load of shopping for her which i will take to her tomorrow. she is 91 and is a long slow decline. other than that i have been to the cafe and the park which was beautiful. i hope you are having a great day. love bunnie xxx
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BunniekinsSenior Contributor
@Taali Taali you are so worthy of love hunny. your posts brighten up my day with your laughter and joy. stay strong sweetheart. love bunniexxx
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Captain24Senior Contributor
Mum has a granddaughter from my brother but she has nothing to do with us. @Bunniekins. we send her money for her birthday and Christmas and don’t even get a thanks back from her. She is in her early 20’s
But mum loves my two most of the time and babysits when I’m working.
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TaaliSenior Contributor
MWAAAA Bunnie.
You have no idea how much your kind words mean to me.
@Taali
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BunniekinsSenior Contributor
@Captain24 sorry i misunderstood your previous post. i am a strange breed of mum i dont want to be a grandma. tbh with you Captain24 i feel so beaten down by the reality of life i just dont have it in me anymore to give that kind of love anymore to any one but my children. so pup is and will be my only grandchild.
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Captain24Senior Contributor
Nah. My two are chihuahuas! Spoilt rotten!!! @Bunniekins They are her grand babies.
I get that. Once upon at time I wanted kids but I’m glad I never had them. It’s not just me am my dogs. I don’t think Id have it in me to actually love anyone. Right now it’s just a struggle to get myself out of bed and care for my dogs. Having children would just be too much!
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BunniekinsSenior Contributor
@Captain24 no one warns you when you have kids what can go wrong. i love my kidults dont get me wrong but a part of me has died is exhausted. i no longer have the energy any more to give like i used to. do you get what i mean? i am no longer strong emotionally or physically anymore. it is like a chunk of me has been wrenched out of my chest.... dont mean to sound so bleak but it is what it is. thank god for my friends on the threads and my music.
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DogMan79Senior Contributor
no kids for me either
i've been happily single since 2001
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Captain24Senior Contributor
I think I get it @Bunniekins. from a deferent perspective, I use to have a few friends. No I struggle to keep in contact with the last 3. It takes so much effort to even message them and hard work to go and see them.
I no longer have the emotional capacity that I use to have either.
It’s not bleak it is just what it is.
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