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Fluttershy1Senior Contributor
Feeling lost and confused, just wanna feel alright I want things to be the way they used to be. I keep getting let down by ndis support workers aswell and it’s breaking me. I’ve been to ER twice this week and I was trying so hard not to go.
changes are just triggering all together. It’s just hard. But still going with my coping skills.
am safe
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MissGremlinSenior Contributor
@Fluttershy1 of course we can sweet ☺️.
How's Nova and Ember going?
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Fluttershy1Senior Contributor
@MissGremlin - nova and ember are good, they have been super naughty but they are very cute.
things have been really hard, not going to lie, I just wished it got better. I want my grandpa back but I know that’s not going to happen.
am safe
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MissGremlinSenior Contributor
@Fluttershy1 hehe they sound like they've been very cheeky, lucky they are so cute ☺️.
I hear how hard things have been sweet and I'm so sorry to hear about your grandpa. Try to be gentle with yourself, grief is not easy to go through and it's different for everyone. Just keep taking it one day at a time sweetheart, we're here for you ❤️.
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Fluttershy1Senior Contributor
@MissGremlin - I’ve tried being gentle with myself but it’s hard. I’m just trying to keep busy. But like it would be easier if I could have a break.
I’ve been in ER so much it’s draining. I’m trying to stay away now. Gotta be strong. Just picking away at my skills.
am safe
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MissGremlinSenior Contributor
@Fluttershy1 I hear you sweet. It's hard when we don't get a break in between things happening. You're doing amazing to keep busy and using your skills.
I can imagine going to the ER would be draining, I'm hoping you can stay away but know that they're there if you do need them. Lots of hugs to you sweetheart ❤️.
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Fluttershy1Senior Contributor
@MissGremlin - I’m sleeping with mum tonight, it feels safer that way,
I’ve been hearing voices aswell which hasn’t been helping. It kinda scares me. So I feel safe snuggling in with mum in her room.
am safe
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MissGremlinSenior Contributor
@Fluttershy1 I'm glad that you're able to sleep in with mum and that it feels safer sweet. Hearing voices is scary, I'm sorry that you're going through so much.
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Fluttershy1Senior Contributor
@MissGremlin - it’s pretty scary, just trying to cope with it some nights is even worse. At least tonight it’s being quiet & letting me just chill with mum.
am safe, how’s casper
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MissGremlinSenior Contributor
@Fluttershy1 I completely understand. I'm glad that it's quiet tonight so that you can chill with mum.
Casper is doing well, he's snuggled up next to me snoring away.
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Fluttershy1Senior Contributor
@MissGremlin - I feel the same way, I have missed our chats aswell.
that’s good about Casper.
if I stop replying I’m asleep.
am safe
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