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Riding a wave

Riding a wave

Hi all,

@CherryBomb, @Former-Member or any other @Former-Member floating around Forum Land, will you ride a wave with me? I thought I would be fine doing something...but it turns out that the something has made my big feelings BIG and now I'm in a pickle...and there's nothing worse than a pickled turtle! I'm going to go and snuggle in my bed so I probably won't actually respond to you, but it will still super help me to know that I am not utterly alone on the wave. I don't want to tag anyone else because I don't want anyone to feel they need to respond. Thank you in advance for riding with me.

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Well that is about the nicest image to finish my forum night on @Phoenix_Rising 🙂 Can we have lots of baby goats on the giant property please? I would so very much love to live on this property and be even more together but not 🙂

Well done to us at having a 100% survival record. Maths is not my thing (gooey is more my thing 😉 ) but that sounds like it's perfect to me.

Snuggle safely and goodnight Phoenix_Rising

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I super need to debrief. I just had a tutoring session with one of my stats clients. She was expressing frustration about the fact that she wants to learn DBT but the practice manager where she is doing her placement just brushes her off telling her that no one actually LEARNS how to do DBT, they just do it by themselves in their own practice. My client was saying how that isn't ok by her and she wants to learn how to do it properly, especially for when working with BPD clients.

It was so so SO hard. On the bright side, it is super cool that she personally recognises how not ok it is for psychologists to play around with therapies they aren't properly trained in, and I was also extremely relieved that she didn't say anything derogatory about people with BPD. Methinks she is definitely one of the "good guys," but she is hamstrung by the absurd situation whereby psychologists don't actually learn how to be psychologists at uni - and she is doing her masters to become a clinical psychologist!!! No doubt she will at some point invest in training in her particular areas of interest, paying for it out of her own pocket (which explains in part why psychologists are so darn expensive).

It makes me SO angry the way people pay psychologists a bazillion dollars assuming they know what they are doing, when in reality, a lot of them simply don't. It terrifies me that society sets them up as "experts" when really so many of them are just making stuff up as they go along. I super like this client and the mere fact that she sees her lack of knowledge as a problem, tells me that she is one of the good guys.

@Former-Member @NikNik @Former-Member

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She does sound like she might be 'one of the good guys' @Phoenix_Rising - being able to recognise the inadequacies in training/learning in any profession can have a positive impact of how an individual moves forward through that profession! ...so maybe this client of yours in on the right track to 'actually' making a difference as a psychologist - and not simply 'going through the motions' as some seem to do - without any real understanding of the impact their lack of knowledge/understanding can infact have on their client(s)!

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Just calling in to say hi @Phoenix_Rising 🙂 That's all really.

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@CheerBear it sounds like my awesome conversational skills are rubbing off onto you. 😂

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That made me laugh lots @Phoenix_Rising 😄

Looking back at that post I'm wondering who even am I. That would have to be the shortest, most succinct post I've made here - those things are not me at all 😛

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Oh no, the care bear has been turtled!!! 😂😂😂

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Me next, huh ?! 😏

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@Phoenix_Rising @CheerBear @Faith-and-Hope You will all start to look the same soon....

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Yay, we can all be disrespectful and offensive together!!!!!

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