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Zoe7Senior Contributor
@utopia
It is the upcoming anniversary of my Pop's death which I was reminded of by the anniversary of a death for someone else. It has brought back alot of memories and grief.
Combining that with some other stuff in 'the real world' - I haven't known what to do or where to go. It really felt like I was on my own and really alone again. I haven't coped with any of it at all well.
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MazaritaSenior Contributor
@Zoe7, @utopia, perhaps zoe could repost the list in a new thread for tomorrow and add the words about not wanting to be tagged in posts for a while as a personal statement in general...
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Zoe7Senior Contributor
I thought about that one already @utopia just haven't got the wording right yet.
I have also been discussing the thread titles and including 'trigger' warnings. Something like this:
My Story SA PA EA SH
(this shows the reader that there is content that involves sexual abuse, physical abuse, emotional abuse and Self Harm)
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Zoe7Senior Contributor
I have been working with NikNik on a few things - and this is one of them - so I better run it past her first @Mazarita We were going to connect earlier this week but I haven't been up to it - as you know - so I hope she is around tomorrow to send it to her.
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utopiaSenior Contributor
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Zoe7Senior Contributor
Yeah @utopia did think about that also - would atart to get quite complex. Ideally having a drop-down box where things could be highlighted and then they are added to the thread title as abbreviations would be great
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utopiaSenior Contributor
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Zoe7Senior Contributor
Go to bed @utopia - and I'll edit some of the earlier stuff later!
Night night 
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AdgeSenior Contributor
I still haven't worked this tagging people (into a conversation) out yet - since you were discussing tagging. I'll get there. I'm still trying to navigate my way around this site, which I find a bit confusing.
Adge
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utopiaSenior Contributor
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AdgeSenior Contributor
Thanks @utopia.
Yep, I'll get it.
Adge
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