Depressed with my situation, later 50s

@mrmista most people I know go from one relationship to another.

Not me.

I think the worst thing someone can ask is, “what’s your plan, what do you want to do?”

When you get to a certain age, it’s more like, what offers are there?

@Glisten

Thx for that, exactly, l don't want all this again but no choice. But yeah, what's on offer, especially in these times, shall have to see,

But ha, yeah, l dunno how they do it. Most l know have been married or together decades, in a way that's sort of worse but eh, at least l'm not in and out of dozens of relationships.

People are mad though and say things like give it a go but no thx, l don't have to l know if she's not right for me, l'd rather wait until someone is, IF !

@mrmista decades - that’s a lot of shared personal history.

You would have spent more of your life being part of a couple, than an individual.

Communicating, negotiating.

@Glisten

Yeppa, pretty well most of. But eh, soma those others l mentioned have been divorced somewhere along the way too before their present marriages sooo.

What about you ?

Shyt thyself for awhile there this morning , bloody nerve racking.

Turns out the buyer mixed up some details and for a minute there thought they might back out.

ln the end he assured us later - for whatever that's worth , all is well again now he is still going ahead though.

@mrmista was the writing on the wall or were you blind sided?

Were you both second time around?

Please don’t feel obligated to answer any of my questions.

I have ADHD and probably some solid autistic traits. Therefore context is everything for me.

It’s really nice that you asked about my situation. But I can only answer with a Schitz Creek meme

@Glisten

Ex and l , no we've both only married the once.

That was the other couples l was talking about , some of them have been married twice though.

Haa, no worries, and don't you feel obligated either but l get the idea.

@mrmista humour is my go to 👉🏼 Also the fact in life nobody survives. All dark humoured pragmatists raise your hand 🙋

I don’t mind answering any questions. I’m not sure what you want to know?

You said that you moved a lot during your life. Do you mean from State to Stare or around in one State?

@Glisten

Nah that's alright but yeah, noticed, this side of you last few posts though been a surprise, different. Not that l even know ya haha. Moves over the yrs hell yeah, jezuz, states and Vic too we moved around, ex and l tried places quite awhile. Longgggg story.

Honestly , and maybe here comes yet another, and l'd still have to build something, anything established, house/unit, is just too damn dear, feel sick thnkin about it, Wish there was another way.

Dreamt l met someone last night, she was reallyyyyy nice , cute as too, we kissed and l held her, she kinda snuggled in in that way you both just knew and feel it instantly.

Wonder if she's real.