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Saturday Soirée- 4 April

Saturday Soirée- 4 April

Hi all,

Hope you all have a great day!

make sure you include some self care for your weekend aswell.

what are your plans for the day?

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@Mustang67

That’s lovely, you are so kind. Fun fact, I actually went out for an early morning walk, so your photo wasn’t too far off 😊 I’ve been having trouble with the support button again, it didn’t work yesterday and it’s still not working today. Do you think I should contact someone about that, and who would I reach out to?

I definitely tend to shut myself down at times, but I’ve been trying to make small efforts to socialise in those moments, and I’ve noticed it also actually helps me feel a bit better.

I dream about having a dog every day, haha. We’re renting at the moment and aren’t allowed pets, so it’s really hard, but I hope one day we’ll be able to. We’ve both always had pets growing up, so after a few years in this rental, we really feel that something is missing. One day!🐶

I’m sorry you haven’t been able to get out as much as you’d like, I hope you’re able to find a way to sort that out. The scenery where I walk can vary quite a bit. Close to home, I usually go to a small bush reserve because it’s quiet and I feel safe there. But my favourite is walking by the beach, along the ocean, or near a lake with mountains. Waterfalls are beautiful too. 😍




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@Mustang67 hey lovely, I had a nice weekend away with my bro and mum. I really like Merredin, I told mum I'd consider retiring there.

It is halfway between Perth and Kalgoorlie and has a population of around 3300. Plus I could buy 2 houses there with what it costs in Perth!

I hope you had a lovely Easter xoxo

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@Mustang67 lol I would have been startled if I'd seen movement in the middle of the night too! I hung a dark shirt on my door and the wind moved it about. I froze, thinking someone was in my house - too scared to turn my bedside lamp on! I finally got the courage and saw my shirt. Duh!!

Is your bunny still floating?

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@Glisten you are so correct, @MissGremlin is pretty amazing isn't she?

I am so far behind, I got an extension for my assessment this week and have only just started it. My brain has stopped functioning.

Thread-Jacker Tomaatti? What's going on?

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@SaltwaterSoul I am not sure who you contact with regard to the support button. I just create my own and send a picture.

Then I hope that enough people who know who to tell, will let the correct people know and the support button eventually gets fixed.

My niece just got a rental and they didn't allow pets, but when she told them that it was for mental health reasons, like giving her something to get up for every day, the landlords then allowed her to have her 3 cats.

I am not sure what state you live in but in South Australia, as of 1 July 2024, landlords cannot unreasonably refuse a request to keep a pet, but they can refuse based on specific, prescribed grounds. Landlords can no longer advertise "no pets allowed" and must provide written justification for any refusal. Reasonable conditions, such as carpet cleaning, can be imposed, and strata rules may still prohibit pets.

I have nearly always had a pet since being born basically, so living in the caravan park for 7 years where I was, was not that enjoyable. They did have kangaroos and a couple of pony's, but it's not the same as having your own pet as part of the family to love and take care of. At least by being kicked out, I am back at home and my cat currently lives inside with my mum. She has been looking after her since I have been in the caravan park. I am trying to introduce her to the caravan, so she can come and visit and cuddle on the bed with me, but so far I haven't had any luck.

And I really really miss having a dog. My last dog was a Jack Russell and he was awesome.

In the next month or two, I will be starting at a new physiotherapist which has specialised machines for my exact back issues. The only down side it the cost, but at this stage I am willing to do what it takes to get me up and walking like I used to. When I wanted to lose weight, and I was working, I would get off the bus a couple of stops earlier and walk the extra distance to work, so I could get my exercise in. When I was my peak, I was getting off the bus, so I had a 40 minute walk to work. I use to feel so energised by the time I got to work. I really miss being able to walk. Like you, I love the ocean/beach and doing a bit of hiking to get to a waterfall is my ideal bush walk. When I first moved into the caravan park, and I think it was around COVID time, I did walk to raise awareness for mental health through Black Dog and of course to raise money. I did it for 3 years running and then I had a bad bout of depression and spent months in bed, and the muscle loss started and then the back issues followed.

So, once I start my new physio and the strengthening exercises to go with it, I can't see any reason why I can't get back to walking again.

I hope you are feeling back to your normal self now.

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@ENKELI wrote:

@Mustang67 hey lovely, I had a nice weekend away with my bro and mum. I really like Merredin, I told mum I'd consider retiring there.

It is halfway between Perth and Kalgoorlie and has a population of around 3300. Plus I could buy 2 houses there with what it costs in Perth!

I hope you had a lovely Easter xoxo


@ENKELI Merredin sounds nice. I am glad that you had a nice weekend away with your Mum and brother. Family time is usually great.

I did have a lovely Easter thank you, I got to spend some of Easter Sunday with my daughter, so that made my weekend.

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@ENKELI wrote:

@Mustang67 lol I would have been startled if I'd seen movement in the middle of the night too! I hung a dark shirt on my door and the wind moved it about. I froze, thinking someone was in my house - too scared to turn my bedside lamp on! I finally got the courage and saw my shirt. Duh!!

Is your bunny still floating?


@ENKELI I would have been the same as you, so you are not alone there.

And yes, the bunny is still floating. It is currently in the bathroom area, so it doesn't keep hopping around the caravan.

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@Mustang67 it works again woho. Thank you my friend, love that.

I’ve heard about that too, I should check if it applies in my state. I do worry they might still have concerns about things like the carpet though. 😔I met a lovely lady who volunteers with Guide Dogs, and she mentioned I could apply for a companion dog if I have a certain diagnosis, that would honestly be a dream.

Also, doing the Black Dog walk for three years is amazing, what a great effort. I find that really inspiring, especially on days when I struggle to do much and have to push myself just to get out.

The new physio sounds really promising. I really hope it works out for you.

And I totally get what you mean about pets. When you’re used to having one, it can feel really empty without them. But it’s really good that your mum has been looking after your cat, and that you still get to see your cat every now and then.🐈😺



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@Mustang67 I'm glad you have a lovely Easter and got to spend time with your daughter.

My maternal family is the best, can't say the same for dad's side lol.

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@Mustang67 that is so cool, your bunny is still floating! Smart move, putting it in the bathroom so it can't startle you again. xoxo

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