Saturday Soiree -- 21st March 2026

@SANE-KhorosCare are you a Moderator? I see you on the forum often, but you have no posts, so just wondering what your role is?

My sincere apologies @Mustang67 and @Shaz51

I just realised I posted in last Sunday's thread. I am currently trying to create a new discussion but may wait and ask @tyme later today. I will do my best to make sure this doesn't happen again.

~ @Honeymoon

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@Shaz51 wrote:

@Mustang67 , @Honeymoon , @tyme

can someone do the sunday coffee and chat please

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All done @Shaz51 @tyme

@Mustang67 thanks for the tag. Life is ho-hum. My paternal family have decided I am persona non grata and won't answer my texts, emails or calls. I heard that my aunt passed away and none of them are answering me to confirm if it is true or not. The blocking me from their lives coincides with my narcisister becoming Queen in Her Own Mind and throwing her weight around (telling my cousins to cut me from their lives)

I am feeling quite discombobulated about the whole thing, although I am pleased that I am not having a full on rejection meltdown as I probably would have 6 months ago.

Family - the reason God gives you friends.

Oh WOW @ENKELI Family definitely suck sometimes. I know it must hurt to be shut out like that, and very inconvenient, especially when trying to confirm if your aunt has actually passed away or not.

Is it your whole paternal family that are not communicating with you or only some of them. And do you know why they would not be communicating?

I have friends that I consider family more than some of my family members.

I am glad that you haven't had a full on rejection meltdown like you would have 6 months ago. That shows growth and for that I am so proud of you.

@Mustang67 it's pretty much my entire paternal family. I have 2 half sisters, one who hasn't spoken to me in over 10 years, the other one who says she loves me then sticks the kn*fe in my back. I have one remaining cousin who hasn't cut me off but I have no doubt he will once he's spoken to the other members.

If I knew why I could maybe try to remedy the situation but I honestly have no idea. It all started when dad died last December. One by one they dropped off but are close to my sister. The irony is that my sister barely knows my dad's side of the family because she's only met them once or twice in her entire life.

I am trying not to care anymore. The stupidity of it is that I would have left my estate to my sister but she gets nothing now. Although I am angry enough at the moment to mention her in my will stating "I leave you what you deserve...nothing."

If I was you @ENKELI, I would be very tempted to mention her in my will stating, "I leave you what you deserve...nothing."

Some people just aren't nice people, and they deserve what they put out into the world, to be returned to them.

@Mustang67 as a Christian, I am letting God deal with her. After all, He is the one who says, "Vengeance is mine." Depending on how I feel when I write my will out I may or may not write her into it.

Keep your friends close and your enemies closer...

You too @MissGremlin 🙏🌻

Hi @Mustang67, awesome Sunday pic by the way!
Hows your nose going? Hope no more nose bleeds 😜

Crystals sound awesome! I love selenite! I know @Jynx likes crystals too! I’d love to hear which crystals you have been reading about and which ones have taken your interest if ever you want to share 😊

Ah yes, I hear you re melt downs, I am glad your harder feelings have passed and you are feeling a bit better. I haven’t shared what I do but I do work different hours that include nights and weekends sometimes, but it’s just a varied schedule job. I like to have some fun with it since I can’t share my job and an icecream maker and stirrer has always appealed to me 🤩😂😋. I love Ice-cream!

How was your day?