@Bunniekins don't worry I have told him in no uncertain terms that something needs to change, as I will not put up with another night like I had. He knows that next time he is gone. I told him I don't want an apology, I want action to change his drinking and behaviour.
I am on the other side of menopause, and I didn't have any symptoms. I did get hot flushes, but I think that was more from my antidepressants I was on at the time. As I went to the doctors to get tested for menopause and was told that I have already been through it. I had a hysterectomy a while ago, so that bought my menopause forward for my age. But I am glad that I didn't have to deal with what some people go through.
When I take my antidepressants in the morning, they make me drowsy and I usually have a sleep not long after breakfast. And my mum is the same. So we are sort of in sync with each other.
And yes, I am loving this cooler weather. I was so sick of the constant heat.