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Does it ever stop

Does it ever stop

Hey - I feel like I can’t escape how I feel, how I react to things, how flashbacks and people I see that have caused me trauma in the past and present. I feel like I’m just trapped in it some days constantly and that it just wants to stay and haunt me and not leave.

my house mates have been arguing constantly and it got to a point tonight where I yelled at them to stop as it is getting annoying as it’s nearly everyday and it never stops. Then one of them had a go at me and started yelling and telling me that it’s the other persons fault when it wasn’t even them. It’s just a constant run around and I can’t seem to escape it.

im just now curled up on my bed in tears because I’m so triggered and I don’t know what or how I’m feeling.

im safe

but it’s just bringing up all my past all over again.

@Shaz51 @Bow @Jacques @Jynx @tyme @Blackbird11 @Meowmy @outlander @Historylover @Snowie @eth @Zoe7 and if I’ve missed anyone please tag them

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@Nala2022 - you will laugh at this, she thinks Perry is a play toy aswell but he isn’t. She also chases her tail which is really funny.

the flashbacks have just been from past traumatic experiences and it’s getting overwhelming at times and also it can be when people don’t give me space and when I’ve already got a lot on my plate or sensory overload. It can be several things.
i woke up every few hours because of nightmares. Nova ended up sleeping on my back I don’t know why but it was so cute. But sometimes i just zone out for hours aswell.

 

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Haha she has such a character. I love it when they chase their tail @Fluttershy1

It's normal when you feel overwhelmed or stressed for flashbacks and nightmares to resurface, doesn't make it any easier. It sounds like your nervous system is up and down. I'm sorry you're going through this, try to remember how resilient you are, even when you don't feel it.

I think Nova could sense you needed the comfort, I like to think their purring has healing abilities. When I feel overwhelmed, I cuddle with Nala and just listen to her purring, brings a sense of calmness

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@Nala2022 - yeh, it’s very much up and down but I’m somehow coping, if nova is sleeping on my back and I don’t wake up she will swipe me with her paw hahaha.

it’s cold here in Melbourne so I have the heating on and it’s making it so much more comfortable

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@Fluttershy1 🤗

@Nala2022 @TAB @MissGremlin @Appleblossom

When Fear Awakes Our Night.

When anxious thoughts refuse to cease
and night will not bestow you peace,
remember softly as you lie
the darkest hours still pass us by.

Though weary minds may toss and turn
and restless fears within us burn,
the morning waits beyond the strain
and gentle calm will come again.

So breathe awhile and do not fight
each shadow moving through the night.
For even hearts that ache this deep
are still deserving rest and sleep.

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The body/nervous system works in mysterious ways. I truly believe we can handle more than we think we can @Fluttershy1

Hahaha she's like "wake up mum it's time to play"

Perfect weather in my opinion, so nice to be rugged up, heater on. Movie weather 😊

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Totally @Nala2022 - have you seen knocked up & bad neighbours

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Thank you for sharing this @DownMoreThanUp

I really like the line "the morning waits beyond the strain and gentle calm will come again." There's something very comforting about that.

It sounds like these words come from a place of deep understanding

How are you today?

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Yes! I love those movies @Fluttershy1

The movie Spy is really funny have you seen it?

I love Bridesmaids, the hot chick, the other woman and 50 first dates. So many more haha

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@DownMoreThanUp - that’s very powerful, thanks for sharing

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@Nala2022 - did you know there’s a bad neighbours 2?

Netflix what I’ve recently watched

Dodgeball a true underdog story

blended

bad neighbours

extinct

spirited away

Matilda

mamma mia

My neighbour totoro

life of party

flipped

Ponyo

swapped

My octopus teacher


that’s my recent recommendations

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