For me, sometimes I have to remind myself that all I really have is right now, even though that can be hard. I try to remember that there are moments when I do feel clearer, more energised, and more able to move forward.
Sometimes it feels like my fearful self has taken over, and a more grounded part of me is somewhere in the background trying to offer a bit of encouragement or grace. I ask myself what I need in that moment. Do I need to journal? Get some chocolate? Go for a walk? Stay in bed? Take a few things off my plate? What pressure can I let go of right now?
I also really struggle with the shame of doing “nothing”, or feeling like I am falling behind and dumping more on my future self. Sometimes talking myself through it helps, but not always, especially if my energy is really low or I am feeling emotionally all over the place.