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General chit chat

Hi@Faith-and-Hope, @utopia, @Mazarita

I'm still not very good at 'navagating' this site, maybe that's why I kept trying 'instant' chat sites - they seemed easier. But I like that messages can be checked, that it's not instant feels like some sort of barrier against instant shock I suppose - though I know this is a public Internet site so anyone can use it. I also think, though I hate the term Mental Illness, as I think it takes all the physical out of it, that the people that cause trauma probably suffer from it, so they would have just as much right to use it. But I feel a bit like typing I think, so I thought I might just blurb a little?
I've went away for a few days. I go every month. I visit the center of my Universe 🙂 The one person who has been there with/for me, their whole life & I believe will remain that way until I die 🙂 . . . & quite the large Family they have provided for me to share in 🙂 I go from, it almost seems like another Planet sometimes, my life is very quiet; to the center of my Universe, which includes 5 grand-children ranging in age from almost 2 to, going on 18; then there's the partner, the partners Parents and a large variety of friends 🙂 I often find myself thinking 'alein sound dimension' - there's so much noise on so many different levels! Every single one of them has every gadget known to mankind, and most of those gadgets make noise! And my World is a lot calmer, with a lot less going on - we're usually driving in the car, taking children to school, doing whatever shopping is necessary for the day in time for whatever seemingly endless appointment is due, . . . by the time my alarm goes off to make sure I wake up in time to get tired in time to go to sleep in time 😄 There's no way I could keep that pace up anymore! After a few days I find myself almost running away with my tail between my legs 🙂 But it's the perfect balance really, I do spend a lot of time alone - apart from my 3 furry, four-legged friends; but I am extremely lucky, my bond with my only child is of a strength I can't see breaking; I get a phone call or text every night & welcomed by a dozen open arms and smiling faces every month. I am lucky, I have a good life. Well, I think life is just a word, neither good nor bad. I have good experiences and I am happy 🙂

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Good Morning Mazy @Mazarita 🙂

I love and appreciate how you can see simple things like keeping up with the bed making and dishes, mowing a liitle lawn and going to the Dentist, are not so simple things for me. There's nothing quite like the feeling of somebody understanding that - so many people don't.

Woop Woop Ye Ha, jumping in the air and doing cartwheels!!! Mazy's feeling good Gooooooo Mazy 😄 Getting dressed, making the bed, CLEANING THE TOILET AND THE VANITY . . . Oh my Goodness!!! Lunch at a friends, 2 and a half kilometer walk on the beach and not just clean but beautiful hair and glamous bling!!!!! Woo Hoo 😄 😄 😄

The biggest part of me doesn't care if you've swung into an elevated mood - sounds brilliant to me {there's just a tiny bit that worries about a crash} There's no such thing as crazy, especially if Mazy can enjoy the day :D

I forgot my 'Good nights' last night - I'm getting spoilt by this forum and my friends . . . bit like a kid thinking 'ooooh I can get my Good nights whenever I want!'. But not really, when I woke up this morning and realized . . . I felt quite disappointed in myself. I had the usual Solar dramas, the incessant beeping when one ran out, having to go outside and shut it down (cause I can't stand that high pitched squeal), then having to go out the other side of the house to hook the other system up, knowing that I have to go back out when I'm finished cause it whirs all night whether it's run out or not! Having a DVD marathon watch, because I'd decided I want to go into the library today and get new ones, so I wanted to finish watching the ones I had - which meant half an entire series . . . and the episodes just kept going and going! 😄

If feeling good is crazy Mazy . . . I hope your still crazy today 😄

Streaming the love

Niqua.

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Gidday Mazy, @Mazarita🙂

Feel like telling a bit of a yarn, first off I didn’t tell a little story that went along with the free cut wood I found in the forest the other day. I forgot to mention something a little exciting. Seeing as I’d driven up the track, over a couple of potential sand-bogs, to get to this freebie cut wood; I decided I’d pick up a few bits that Mother Nature had broken in just the right size pieces for my fire-box. I always tap the wood I pick up onto another larger, hard piece of wood, to knock off a bit of the dirt and bugs. One piece I did this to I immediately dropped, as I thought it had a worm in it; . . . it wasn’t a worm, I couldn’t help myself, I had to pick it up again and have a look – it was a little snake! Kinda cute actually, with, not a band, more like a smudge of blue below its head and pink blobs on its underbelly, it had a kind of metallic shine to it – kinda pretty too. Maybe that’s what motivated me to mow the last patch of long grass in my yard. I felt sorry for the poor little thing, what a rude awakening! I placed it gently back where I’d found it. Another spring-is-coming bit of news is I got my first tick for the season. The buggers burrow in right in the middle of my back, below my shoulder blades . . . and I can’t reach there! I don’t get paralyses ticks here {thank goodness}, I think it’s a nick-name, but I call them Nymph ticks – they make me itch like crazy; but they start so small I can’t see them. I’ve had enough of them now though, after nearly 20 years here, that I’m learning that particular itch. All I can do about them is spray some personal insect repellent down my back in the hope it will dribble over the nasty little sucker and terminate it. It usually works, even if I have to do it a few days in a row – I think I’ve gotten this one now.

Now for today’s tale. I went into town today to swap over my DVD’s, I took the dogs with me intending to take them for a walk in the forest on the way home. But as I drove in I noticed one of those dog baiting signs, I’m not sure if it was a new one, just for that area, or an older one that hadn’t been taken down, as I didn’t see any others – but it turned me off the idea of the forest walk. I decided to go to a local reserve area instead, being sure I’d check for any signs along the way. I can’t go anywhere without the guidance of my trusty GPS – I just get hopelessly lost {I can even get lost with the GPS!!}; but for some reason the signal wasn’t very good and I missed the first turn it told me to take. It immediately re-calculated the route and told me to drive on another 10kms, so I did; figuring I’d probably be going a little further and be coming in to the reserve from the other end of the road. I found myself travelling in an area I’d never been to, frightening but exciting at the same time. The road I was on turned to dirt and I didn’t remember the reserve I was going to being on a dirt road {probably because it wasn’t – I checked on the way back}; but I decided to just see it as a nice drive in the country (it was/is a beautiful area) and continue along, trusting my GPS. I don’t know how I noticed it, as the sign was in from the road, but I found another State forest! So exciting!!! It was wonderful, very tall, established trees, no signs of tyre tracks or people of any kind. It was gated off so I couldn’t drive in, even if I could of I wouldn’t have gotten far, the track had some major erosion in many parts – probably another reason it was so peaceful. Though the peace was broken pretty early in the walk, I hadn’t gone far down the track when I noticed the young fella was gone. I stopped and called, and whistled and called some more. Being a brand new spot, I didn’t want to just keep walking, in case he came back to where he’d left and I wasn’t there. I started noticing a weird noise, at first I thought it was music, like the distant drum beat of a pop song being played too loud. I found that rather off-putting, but it started getting louder and seemed more like a pumps regular thumping – I was still calling and whistling . . . and getting a bit worried. I even headed off the track a little towards this sound, and then all of a sudden it sounded quite close and more like grunts and snorts!! The young fella came back, all sloppy tonged and panting – I’m 99% sure it was a pig! There were plenty of track marks, once I started looking. Part of me was scared and wanted to just leave, the other part was mesmerized by this enchanting new forest. It was like walking into another country or World, completely different to around my home, probably because it hadn’t been cleared and was actually what the area was like before farms and settlement. I decided to go on, hoping the pigs would be more afraid of Humans than I was of them. I found beautiful sparkling conglomerate rock slabs (black and white speckles that glittered) and stunning pure white rocks as well. The track didn’t really go too far, it seemed to end in a natural sandy clearing. There were hundreds of little Sun Dews! I’ve never come across them anywhere else near where I live. There was also a trickle of water that seemed to come out of the ground a little way up the hill, though it had a strange colour, that I hope wasn’t a sign of toxic pollution, but was pink, blue and green oily looking and seemed to float on top of the water. It was all absolutely fascinating and definitely made for a very enjoyable adventure! The walk back to the car was uneventful but peaceful, beautiful and naturally magical. There were a couple of side-tracks that I’ll go back to one day and check out.

When we got back in the car I continued to follow the GPS to the reserve I’d set it for, just for the drive of it; when I got there I re-set it for home. It took me back along roads I didn’t even know existed, through rolling hills that I didn’t know where even there. Quite a beautiful drive, and shorter than going back through town. All in all, it made for a great afternoon.

Phew! What a yarn!

Hope you’re having a crazy day

Niqua

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Hi @Former-Member, @CheerBear, @Owlunar,

Just a quick note to the three of you here to thank you for messages on this and other discussion threads earlier today. I haven't got back to responding yet because I was out. And then, when I got home, I felt suddenly sick and vomited up everything I'd eaten all day. Just got up from sleeping off the sick. Still shaky. Will respond to your posts in the other threads as soon as I am well enough. ox

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Good night Mazy @Mazarita,

I'm sorry you were ill, I hope it's settled now Take as much time as you need to recover, don't push yourself . .. sip some water. Sleep well, wake up better, peace be with you

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Oh golly @Mazarita

That sounds terrible - possibly you ate something bad and better out than in - but that sounds like a nightmare

Thanks for letting us know and take the time you need to recover - that might take a day or two - so horrible

I am glad you could sleep it off though

Dec

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Good morning @Mazarita, @Former-Member and @Owlunar and everyone here

Mazarita - your yesterday sickness sounds not nice at all. I hope it settled well enough for you to be able to sleep last night. Thank you for your message in the nest. It was really nice to read with my coffee this morning. Hope you're feeling better this morning 💗

@Former-Member - something else that was lovely to read with my cuppa this morning was the story you shared yesterday. I get lost in a world of adventure and exploration whenever I stumble across your stories. I can only imagine how nice it would be to actually live them! I love the colours you described, and the sounds. It's one thing to hear/read about something happening and another thing to 'feel' it, which is what you are able to share through your writing. Big smile here 😊

Hi @Owlunar 😊 Just wanted to say good morning and that I hope your day today is a good one.

I am listening to the start of the morning birds waking up, which happens just before the sun wakes up. That halfway time between the stillness of the night and the busyness of the day, is my favorite time of the day and I love being able to catch it. I also love being able to catch the shower before the morning bathroom peak hour happens in our house - which is what I will do now 😊

Hope you all have a good day 💛🌞

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Hi @CheerBear

I'm having my coffee and saying "Hi" and "Good Morning" and "Have the best day possible" and I wish you all the same.

I love hearing the early birds singing too - spring is coming - the days are gradually getting a bit longer and September is not far away and d'uh - we know it's still winter

Yes - I do - and I often wonder what's so great about the early worm but the bird seems happy

Dec

But I hope I have my early bird bic

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Thinking of you Mazy @Mazarita

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Hi @Former-Member, @Owlunar, thanks for the messages today.

I have recovered well by sleeping many hours last night. And have had a good day out of the flat doing different things today. Star Trek is soon on, so I'll save a lengthier reply until a bit later. Hope you have both had an okay (or even better than that) day. ox

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Hello @Mazarita my sister, hope you feel better xx

Hello @Former-Member, @Owlunar, @CheerBear, @outlander

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