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Merry Grinch-mas

Merry Grinch-mas

I hate Christmas

I hate Santa

I hate lights

I hate all the awkward questions and people feeling sorry for you being alone at Christmas.

I hate the crowded shopping centres with kids running loose and parents on their phones

I hate Christmas, well what the world has made it anyway

So for all my fellow grinches, join me as we stumble through another Christmas and all the emotions that it brings up that aren't always pleasant.

@AuntGlow @MissGremlin @Cuddlebear

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@avant-garde oohhh this hit me with the feels. I'm with you on the disliking of things at this time of year.

Sending you hugs beautiful, we'll get through this time together ❤️

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Hey @MissGremlin @avant-garde ,

I'm hearing these big feels which are totally valid.

As part of this thread, can we consider how we can support each other manage some of these emotions so that posts remain recovery-focused?

Happy to guide you.

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@tyme i think it's mainly a space for support for those that struggle through this time of year. A space to connect and maybe distract ourselves with different conversations ☺️

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Absolutely @MissGremlin @avant-garde . Hence I made that post to ensure others are aware of it too and you can all support each other. I don't celebrate Christmas either. I don't do Christmas. I don't do santa. I don't do all that partying. So I get where you're coming from.

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@tyme @MissGremlin

My therapist and I came up with a tactic today for shopping centres, something I noticed I was doing yesterday, trying to find a Nativity scene in amongst everything Santa.

I had a dentist appointment yesterday and I said to the receptionist "I see all these Santa's, but where's the Nativity scene?"

She didn't know what I was talking about and she's of the age that she would've learned about it in school.

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@avant-garde yes you don't see many nativity scenes anymore. That's actually so disappointing that she didn't know what you were talking about. Christmas has become so commercialised that the true meaning has all but been forgotten about 😞.

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@MissGremlin

I am happy to remind them

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@avant-garde when I go to the shops on Saturday I'm going to see if I can find some nativity scenes. If I do are you happy for me to share the pictures here?

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@MissGremlin

I like nativity scenes, so yes

The shopping centre near me has kind of ruined the nativity scene though, they've put a giant Santa next to it with more small Santa's underneath. At least they didn't put him in the manger.

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