RhymsterSenior Contributor
Understanding
I don't understand why others think it is important to love oneself I have never even liked myself instead I fully accept who I am.
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Understanding
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rav3nSenior Contributor
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@Rhymster that's a really interesting thought, and it's one i'll continue to reflect on too. i've always viewed acceptance as a form of self-love.
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RhymsterSenior Contributor
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@rav3n it was a long journey to find acceptance including the paradoxical nature of my existence
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rav3nSenior Contributor
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is there anything in particular that helped you fully accept yourself? i feel like i'm still on my acceptance journey, i've made a lot of progress these last few years though 😊 @Rhymster
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RhymsterSenior Contributor
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@rav3n always sticking to the vow I made to myself on my second birthday
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rav3nSenior Contributor
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oh wow, would you be comfortable sharing a bit more about the vow here? no pressure if you don't want to! @Rhymster
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RhymsterSenior Contributor
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@rav3n to be the complete opposite of my father and to always speak truth
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rav3nSenior Contributor
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@Rhymster that's such a big vow to make at such a young age. i can see how honesty can help with acceptance - and i'm proud of you for continuing to speak your truth. i imagine your younger self is proud of you for continuing to uphold your vow 💙
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RhymsterSenior Contributor
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@rav3n at four I had six months of hell because I refused to lie and never buckled
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rav3nSenior Contributor
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@Rhymster that's awful that you were treated that way. especially at such a young age, i imagine it would've been really hard and confusing to understand why you were being punished for being honest.
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RhymsterSenior Contributor
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@rav3n I understood the cost I just refused to break a vow
