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Pros and Cons

Pros and Cons

Does anyone else weigh up the options in life? Does anyone do like a pro and con list? I've been doing mine and all I'm getting is con. I'm starting to think what's the real point of my cons stop me for living the fullest. Like do I just want to exists in life and never reach my full potential or do I want to give up. Do I need to alter my dreams to coinside with my illness?

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We're here with open arms and listening ears if you need.

Try and stay connected whilst you ride it out, in saying that you do what you feel you need. Whatever works for you. You're #1 🙂

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Really spiralling out of control today. Coming to the conclusion my dream holidays will not be happening due to my anxiety. I so hate myself for it. I can't do my number 1 Dream because of my head! My silly head! I'm getting in the way of my own dream.

Anxiety levels are throgh the roof!!! Trying not let it make me vomit. I just want to be able to do my dream.

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I too have bipolar @Former-Member.

If I were spending a lot of money in one week I would see it as a big warning sign of hypomania rapidly swinging in to mania.

My credit card is in a very large container full of water in a freezer - not my freezer. To get access to my credit card I have to defrost the whole container to be able to use my card. The thing is, I get too impatient to wait for it to defrost.

It works because I can't spend any borrowed money!

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Haha I love that idea!!! Thankfully I don't use my credit card. I just spend my money I actually have and live on noodle soup.

Yer I'm getting nervous for the big fall but I'm taking advantage of this high and socialising and doing stuff non stop. Can't stop dont want to stop.

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F F F F F F F F F F F WHATS THE DAM POINT OF THIS! IM NEVER GOING TO FEEL BETTER IM NEVER GOOD ENOUGH IM NEVER GOING TO GET WHERE MY DREAMS ARE!!!! LITRALY OVER EVERYTHING! THIS WORLD IS SO MESSED UP! I HATE MYSELF AND LOOK AT THE WORLD FOR BEAUTY BUT ITS ALL FAKE BEAUTY! NOTHING IS REAL ITS ALL LIES!

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It's shit enough I'm breaking down but no I have to slowly feel myself unravel into a mess. There's no stopping it. Nothing can stop it. It's just part of my stupid life

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Hi there @Former-Member

You sound like you aren't coping very well right now, I am so sorry that must be incredibly hard, I will send you an email okay, here for you.

Lunar ❤️

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Can not stop cleaning and that's not helping. Just want it to end

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And then I feel worse
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