Thank you for sharing that story @REDLINEZ750 ; I agree that we never really know how much impact our interactions with someone can have, often we don't hear the positive feedback. I am glad you took the lady's idea to call the police for help rather than freeze. I can imagine if you were used to police being a negative experience that would be so hard and scary to do. I am so glad to hear that it turned out a positive experience and they were able to help get you to a safe truck stop where you could have shelter, rest and recharge the phone.
I don't think your call to lifeline was a dumb or silly thing either; you were in need of help and also upset from the family interaction. That's what support lines are for. I remember hearing some that say its OK to call *before* you are in crisis and even if you are just feeling really down and lonely and vulnerable. It doesn't have to wait until you are at crisis - sometimes it is easier to be helped before that stage too. 🙂
Looking forward to hearing later how the shift goes/went @Blackcloud. I hope you get some who are able to show you appreciation and thank you for your time - but also know that when people are in a crisis state they may not think to express gratitude at the time, so don't take it negatively if they don't.
@RebelliousAngel hope you get some rest/relaxation, sounds well needed. Movie sounds a good idea.
I think I am taking this afternoon off for a bit - or at least until a bit later this afternoon. I am at a stage in my prep work for Saturday where I need to wait for some help from others in the family to setup, and can't do it too far in advance - but could do it tonight or tomorrow. But it is expected to rain tomorrow, so not sure if I should put the gazebo up today (before the ground gets wet under!) or tomorrow afternoon after the rain (if it stops!) so it's not exposed for as long... But I don't have anyone to help me this evening I don't think. But in theory I should be able to set it up myself, as long as I have help moving some items from the area to set it up on.