Hi

oh eek, i can't do needles. even if it's someone else getting them, i get a headache haha. hope the lil one and Mrs Arra are feeling okay! @ArraDreaming

omg i love this costume party idea!! tbh it sounds more fun that treat-or-treating hehe. what costumes have they made?? are you all gonna watch some horror movies tonight too (like the kid friendly ones)?

Just standard baby ones! @rav3n 4 months old already
our oldest kid wanred a Minecraft character from a cardboard box, another wanted to be frog, toddler is a ghost and the baby I think is just a bear in a warm onsie thing

Hey @ArraDreaming

I'm alright. A pretty admin heavy day but decently productive. My office is quite cold today though, which is making typing slightly more difficult.

I don't personally celebrate Halloween. I don't like scary movies either. It sounds chaotic that the kids all want to be different things. I didn't mind dressing up as a kid and a teenager. Haven't done anything like that it quite a long time. Hope you all have a good time! 🎃💀🕸

@0ddsidian my Mrs is very creative and crafty so she did all the costumes

@0ddsidian my kids are way too little still be doing anything actually scary but we just dress up for fun

Hey @Jynx long time no see

I’m really worried about my sister

Hey @ArraDreaming ,

I hear you are worried. Is your nephew with you?

I wonder if she actually wants to be with her partner or there is some control? Just wondering. No need to answer.

I hear your concerns though.

Hope you're okay.

Did you get to have time in nature with your fam?

there’s control [edited by moderator] @tyme
to put it lightly
I just don’t know if she can see it

She doesn’t drive and he lives up in near the city so she gets the train with my nephew up there I think idk

She messaged just tonight asking if I could take him for the night tomorrow again, I said no even though it goes against what I want which is to know he is safe and somewhere a baby of under 2 should be not being dragged around, I have my own family and we had him all weekend last weekend we just want some family time just us, its so hard having 4 kids and then add in a 5th that just wants his mum, my kids deserve stability just like he does and having him stay throws them out a bit

We are barely coping we are not sleeping as it is already with our own 4. Toddlers are wild we already have one and she’s like having 6.

i want to have him here because it’s eyes on him and I love him but, we just cant and Mrs AD has been struggling enough as is it is

just to be fully open about what’s going on

Then she stopped replying to me even though I offered a baby of clothes our girl had outgrown

We got it for a walk in the waterfront where I live, there’s a big ship docked out there in the bay so we thought that was pretty cool and just got a coffee and play in the park @tyme

also it’s not like he’s 7 or 8 and can play with our kids without needing constant supervision he’s a baby