I've felt like that a lot too @Nick4 , its not nice or easy eh. I really wish I had a solution for you, but im not going to lie - i dont. But i/we can walk the path with you.
Whats on your mind? What's the barriers/situation you cant see a way forward through?
(Only if you wish to share; i ask so that if you want we can try to offer some ideas or perspectives, or even just if it helps you get it off your chest and know you're heard and not alone).
If you use the "@" and select a user name, the person will get a notification to know you've replied. Sorry I missed your post yesterday, or I would have replied sooner.