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✨Sunday Intention Setting✨

✨Sunday Intention Setting✨

Hello lovely people,

I have been reflecting on some ways we can support you all through our recovery-oriented way of connecting on the forums, and thought that creating a weekly intention setting/reflection conversation could be really helpful. 🥰

Intention-setting can allow us to more mindfully focus our attention onto the things we would like to explore more of (without too much pressure!). And when we do so within community, it can help us to feel more supported as we go about exploring new habits and ideas.

Now, this isn't about showing up perfectly or reaching all of our 'goals' overnight, but rather, exploring what is possible, what we enjoy, and how we can feel more safely connected to ourselves.

So, what will this look like exactly?

1. Set your intention for the week. For example, I am going to practice allowing myself 5 minutes a day to slow down.

2. Reflect. You can do this throughout the week via your notes app, a journal, or here on the forums. *Notice what feels good, what doesn't, and why.

3. Share the following Sunday. Let us know what you were able to explore and what came up for you/if you have any questions or need some support.

Remember - there is no right or wrong! It's so fine if all you did was hold the intention in the back of your mind - change takes time. I would love you all to have fun with this and to explore things from a place of curiosity and compassion. 💛

And... go! @MissGremlin @NightFury @Bow @Shaz51 @Captain24 @creative_writer @avant-garde @Oaktree @ENKELI @Dimity @Semly @Appleblossom @MJG017 @Sunnyside226 @Blackcloud @PeppyPatti @Till23

@Jynx @tyme @Ru-bee @rav3n @RiverSeal

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I know you have been working on striking a balance between effort and ease @Captain24. How did you go with this over the weekend whilst you were away? ✨

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I am so happy to read that you have been allowing yourself some time to regulate and create stillness before doing all that you have to do. @NightFury Is a hot drink by the fire on the cards this evening? 🥰

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How did your assignments go @Oaktree? And how are you feeling now that your support worker and psychologist are back? I am sure that is helping with feeling supported. 🥰

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I did really well with it Saturday afternoon when I got to Kiama and I did well Sunday @AuntGlow Spending time watching the ocean. Today was a bit harder. Just over socialised and raining a lot but I’m just going to chill for the afternoon. I had to push myself today to be nice all day but other than the anxiety of driving so far I’ve been doing a lot of self care

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Ah, that sounds so calming. @Captain24

I understand the irritation that can come about from too much people time haha. It sounds like you did a great job of balancing being a present friend, but also coming back to yourself.

Amazing work. 🤩

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@AuntGlow slowing down... I'm often in functional freeze but a few days ago I went into acute freeze when needing to return a phone call. I don't think that's what you meant.

Still looking for self-soothing methods, it's a work in progress.

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@AuntGlow I also took a day off work last and gave myself permission to stop! It wasn't about slowing down...I needed to come to a complete stop and take care of myself.

Sometimes I wonder whether slowing down, giving myself permission to stop is giving in...

I feel really unmotivated at the moment and I'm finding myself having a hard time getting out of bed, getting moving and wanting to stay out of bed. But I push myself because I fear that if I give myself permission, I won't be able to find the momentum again. I don't know, just thoughts.

I haven't had a cuppa by the fire this week. It's been a busy and challenging week so far. But I've been trying to find other ways to slow down - like spending an hour working on my diamond dot.

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Hello Party People! 🥳

I hope you have all enjoyed the last few weeks of practicing slowing down. Whether you've shared your experience or worked on this alone, know that I am really proud of all of your efforts - working towards any intention that veers away from our comfort zone takes guts (remember that!).

Now, for the next few weeks, I would love it if we could explore our Glimmers.

But what are Glimmers, I hear you ask?

(I expect most of you will know what I am on about, but feel free to play along. 😂)

*content credit: https://www.hellomagazine.com/healthandbeauty/health-and-fitness/496911/glimmers-what-are-they-how-to-spot-them/

So, now that we're all across Glimmers I encourage you to get curious about what they might look like for you and pop them here as you notice them come up - excited to read your answers! 💛

@Till23 @Bow @Blackcloud @Sunnyside226 @avant-garde @Oaktree @Captain24 @MissinTooth @tyme@Dimity@Shaz51 @The-red-centaur @Appleblossom @starsmile @Cuddlebear @MDT @PeppiPatty @Jacques @ENKELI @Glisten @lonemushroom @Junie@MotherDuck @Snowie @creative_writer @Sparky79@BlueBay@BluJay@Snowie@AlwaysMyself@Kashmina @MissGremlin @Ru-bee @rav3n @Lost52 @YourLocalMHGuru

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Just had a glimmer @AuntGlow. Gave the dogs a treat and Pix was so excited.

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@AuntGlow

I had a glimmer on Friday. My hubby bought me a pencil sharpener and just because flowers.

 

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