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Functioning with ADHD

Functioning with ADHD

How do people function while living with ADHD? I’m pretty much non-functional, it’s taking a toil on my mental health, I’m stuck in constant rumination. I try to look for a reasonable solution, but I see the unreasonable

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@Jynx I’m going to eat something soon, haven’t had anything for a while (lack of appetite). I think right now I need a distraction and company. I need a break from these dark thoughts in my mind. I don’t have it in me to talk about what’s happening for me right now, words evade me, and there is too much I can’t talk about, I’m too scared. Might need a PRN tonight to settle

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@creative_writer ty for communicating that to us hun!!

You up for joining the Saturday Soiree, or wanna chat here? I may not be able to respond quite as quickly as the folks over there but I am here for ya 💜

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@Jynx I’ve just had dinner, I’ll join now
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@creative_writer food always helps!! See you over there 😊

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@Jynx I might take a break from the forums, I’m going deeper and deeper in disassociation. Experiencing derealisation and depersonalisation. I can touch base with you tomorrow if you’re on

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Legit @creative_writer take it one step at a time yeah? TY for letting me know, yes I'm sure one of us will remember to stop in to tag the other 😋

Good looking after your needs 💜

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@Jynx I hope you are doing well today 💖

I don't have SI today, still feeling pretty numb. I think disassociating is helping me get through these body flashbacks. It has left me feeling apathetic, I know it'll pass eventually as it always does. It's a coping mechanism I developed as a child. Grounding feels a bit weird, it feels like I'm stuck in someone else's body. It's like I'm looking through the eyes' of someone else, and my hands don't feel like mine. I am thinking of what else I can do to feel more present

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Hey @creative_writer

It sounds like this would be pretty disconcerting when you're trying to ground yourself.

Maybe some other methods you could give a god could be other calming activities like listening to music, taking a walk, maybe getting out in nature a little bit if that's accessible to you, or perhaps rather than focusing on the body sensation part of grounding you could focus on an object - really take in all the details of it

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@Ru-bee it is indeed very uncomfortable, even though I know it’s my mind’s way of coping with the heightened distress I’ve experienced recently.

I could try focusing on an object and take in details. It might take my mind of the unrealness of the object if I focus on details

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I’ve started to feel my emotions again. Body flashback is being annoying, I’ve been taking my mind off it. I know my psych wants me to increase my emotional tolerance, so I need to sit with it for a bit, but it is so hard. I wish I didn’t need to deal with it.

I have been trying to grow from everything I’ve experienced, but I still get frustrated. I wish I did not get so frustrated. I know I’m fortunate to have supports to lean on. Maybe I’m being too hard on myself. I want to move faster. I want to stop feeling angry because it’s poisoning me. I want to forgive but don’t know how
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