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How do people function while living with ADHD? I’m pretty much non-functional, it’s taking a toil on my mental health, I’m stuck in constant rumination. I try to look for a reasonable solution, but I see the unreasonable
Yes, an inner tug-of-war is a great way to describe that feeling. @creative_writer
How are things feeling today - what way are you leaning? 💛
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creative_writerSenior Contributor
Re: Functioning with ADHD
@AuntGlow I feel sort of stuck in the tug of war. I can’t wait for the flashbacks to disappear before reaching growth. I need to somehow growth while experiencing discomfort. My mind is like if you’re still getting them so frequently, you probably aren’t growing enough
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AuntGlowModerator
Re: Functioning with ADHD
You've touched on a really good reflection here: growth happens in moments of discomfort. I know it's the most awful feeling at times, truly... I also know how empowering it is when you're able to reflect upon your growth. You truly do deserve a flourishing and joyful life @creative_writer. And you are on your way, you are growing. I know you can do this. One step at a time. 💛
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creative_writerSenior Contributor
Re: Functioning with ADHD
@AuntGlow it’s probably a lot to expect the flashbacks to disappear. I guess it takes time. Maybe it is about growing in the midst of discomfort, doesn’t make it easier, but it gives you a realistic goal to aim for
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