Can someone help me

I know ... but you can learn to not take it in as much .... it takes practice. I know because things like that used to get under my skin more than they do now. You can develop a bit of a shield, but it means reserving yourself a bit from her .... not giving quite so much of yourself into that relationship .... or at least not all the time.

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@Pepsimax

I do it by being very polite to the person who bothers me, but not chatty ... just formally polite like someone you work with who you don't actually have to be friends with .... and then distract myself with something else.

If you are grumpy with them, it gives them negative attention, and difficult people tend to like attention ... any attention, negative or positive. If you give them no attention you will find it might irritate thenpm at first, but then they start to feel as if it's not worth trying to get attention from you (you make it hard for them to get any attention from you) so they will start to leave you alone

They might even consider you boring .... but that's okay .... they are entitled to their opinion, but you don't have to accept their opinion of you for yourself .... if it stops them from annoying you, just ignore it. Stick your head into a book and colour in.

@Pepsimax .... these are my suggestions. Try them if they appeal to you, but it's up to you, and what you are comfortable with?

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Here also @Pepsimax if you need me 💕