Hey @Blackcloud ,
I have a parent with similar background to yours. I hear you on the narrow-minded view of heteronormativity they have, which includes wanting to get married and have kids. They do make it a big deal! It's worse because they bring their 1980s view of relationships with them to Australia, not realising that things have, for the most part, moved on since then.
But not all of our generation have moved on.
My mum's friend was going to set me up with a young man from their birth country. In the end, the young man didn't want to meet me. Guess what the reason was? I have a higher university degree than him! I have a masters and he 'only has a bachelors'! Read into that what you will.
Outdated, I say!
@tyme @MissGremlin @Glisten , I'm interested to hear your thoughts on this, too.