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Managing thoughts of suicide & self-harm

Battles

MissGremlinSenior Contributor15 Mar 2025, 8:19 pm AEDT

Battles

Hi all, does anyone else just feel like life is just one big sh!t show? It's just one thing after another, constant drama, family issues, money struggles, stress, anxiety it's just always something.

When do things get easier, do things ever change?

I've been through more than i care to think about in my life but today has pushed me to breaking point and it's bringing up alot of bad memories of previous suicide attempts.

I just feel like it's not worth it, it's not worth fighting, not worth hanging on anymore.

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rav3nSenior Contributor04 Apr 2025, 7:14 pm AEDT

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ahhh noo i'm so sorry they've said that @MissGremlin i'd be pretty frustrated too!!!

bragging my chair next to ya, and also gonna make myself a cuppa. feel free to join me 🍵

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MissGremlinSenior Contributor04 Apr 2025, 7:18 pm AEDT

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@rav3n I feel like everyone has given up on me.

I'll be making an iced coffee soon, just gotta get to 7.30pm first.

Thankyou for that little quote ❤️

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rav3nSenior Contributor04 Apr 2025, 7:35 pm AEDT

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i can't speak for 'everyone' but i can speak for myself, the moderators and the forums community - we have not given up on you. we will never give up on you. you've come so far, worked so hard and you're still pushing through right now - you're so strong and you are absolutely deserving of being supported. @MissGremlin

you wouldn't leave our side if things got rough, we're definitely not leaving yours 💙

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MissGremlinSenior Contributor04 Apr 2025, 7:38 pm AEDT

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This really means so much to me @rav3n. Thankyou ❤️.

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MissGremlinSenior Contributor04 Apr 2025, 7:39 pm AEDT

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@rav3n i gotta get my routine done for bed so I'll be back soon.

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rav3nSenior Contributor04 Apr 2025, 7:41 pm AEDT

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you mean so much to us 💙 @MissGremlin

and no worries!! chat to ya when you've done your routine.

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MissGremlinSenior Contributor04 Apr 2025, 8:12 pm AEDT

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@rav3n you still around. That took longer than it should have, nothing like being hurt and having abuse screamed at you while you are trying to get ready for bed 😞.

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rav3nSenior Contributor04 Apr 2025, 8:43 pm AEDT

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yes i am!! so sorry it took a while @MissGremlin ughh absolute worst, sucks you have to be mistreated like that. do you mind me asking, does the person who abuses you also live with you? are you already connected to domestic violence/abuse supports to help you stay safe?

you in bed now? got some teddies to hug around? sending you some extra hugs too 💙

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MissGremlinSenior Contributor04 Apr 2025, 8:45 pm AEDT

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@rav3n nope none of them live with me. No services can or will help me.

I'm sitting on my bed and trying to do my colouring but shaking and struggling to stay focused. Only got a couple of teddies on my bed. Thanks for those hugs, I definitely need them right now.

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rav3nSenior Contributor04 Apr 2025, 9:09 pm AEDT

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@MissGremlin phew glad they don't live with you, but still really upsetting and frustrating that there's no services that can help. did services mention why they can't?

which colouring were you working on? wish there was a de-shaker machine that made our bodies relax instantly, i'd buy us some. do you own onesies or oodies? sometimes layering up makes it harder to shake but also i don't want you to overheat haha

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