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Managing thoughts of suicide & self-harm

Battles

MissGremlinSenior Contributor15 Mar 2025, 8:19 pm AEDT

Battles

Hi all, does anyone else just feel like life is just one big sh!t show? It's just one thing after another, constant drama, family issues, money struggles, stress, anxiety it's just always something.

When do things get easier, do things ever change?

I've been through more than i care to think about in my life but today has pushed me to breaking point and it's bringing up alot of bad memories of previous suicide attempts.

I just feel like it's not worth it, it's not worth fighting, not worth hanging on anymore.

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MissGremlinSenior Contributor03 Apr 2025, 6:30 pm AEDT

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@Jynx

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JynxModerator03 Apr 2025, 7:01 pm AEDT

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@MissGremlin no matter what, it will be over, in time. I know, it's so hard, and so, SO exhausting.

If an email check in or anything would help you just let me know ok? 💜

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MissGremlinSenior Contributor03 Apr 2025, 7:08 pm AEDT

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@Jynx i need it to be over now though.

I could do with an email check in but I also don't want to put too much on you cos I know it's alot to hear.

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JynxModerator03 Apr 2025, 7:18 pm AEDT

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I'll flick you one @MissGremlin sounds like it could help. Just gonna have my dinner soon too so I will see your response on my return 😉

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MissGremlinSenior Contributor03 Apr 2025, 8:39 pm AEDT

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Thankyou @Jynx. I hope you enjoyed your dinner ❤️

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MissGremlinSenior Contributor03 Apr 2025, 9:15 pm AEDT

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@Jynx i have this guy messaging me he's the same age as me. When we first started talking like 10 years ago he couldn't handle my depression and was a complete ass and I stopped talking to him. Anyway like 8 years later he messages me saying sorry for how he acted and that it wasn't fair and wished me well. We got to talking and things seemed to be going well, although he caught me at a really bad time in my life. Then we stopped talking and I didn't hear from him for a year, then out of the blue he messaged again. We talked daily for a while and i was starting to feel a connection to him but I'm extremely cautious given my history but i worked up the courage to see him and we caught up once and he was clearly only interested in one thing. I was hurt and stopped contact, but he has started messaging me again but he keeps trying to force me to see him, now he lives with a group of guys and I'm not about to put myself in that situation. Like what am I supposed to do in this situation. And yes I've blocked him before but then I get down cos I don't have any friends to talk to so I unblock him and he contacts me again. But he knows what I've been and am going through and he still just wants to get into my pants.

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JynxModerator03 Apr 2025, 10:02 pm AEDT

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@MissGremlin UGH.

Have to skedaddle but just wanted to offer solidarity cos... ugh. You deserve so much better!

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MissGremlinSenior Contributor03 Apr 2025, 10:04 pm AEDT

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Thanks @Jynx ❤️. UGH indeed, the frustration is real. There's a reason I will not enter into a relationship with anyone ever again.

Hope you have a good night ❤️

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MissGremlinSenior Contributor04 Apr 2025, 8:13 am AEDT

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Morning @Bunniekins, how are you going?

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BunniekinsSenior Contributor04 Apr 2025, 1:46 pm AEDT

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@MissGremlin hey Dreamy i have been thinking about you. i am well hun how are you going though?

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