@creative_writer what are some healthy ways of releasing anger/frustration that have worked for you in the past?
i can share a couple that's worked for me (changes depending on the situation):
- journaling and writing out everything that's been annoying, sometimes i even just scribble angrily and rip a couple pages.
- singing, i like listening to songs that i relate to and i sing loudly in the car.
- taking long deep breathes and holding onto a squishy toy, so if when i do struggle to calm down, i can give the toy a squeeze and try breathing again.
- oh and i did scream into a pillow a few times which really did help.
i also want to remind you - thoughts aren't facts. i'm sorry that your brain is trying to convince you to believe some UNTRUE things, but know that its your brain feeling low. you did not deserve to have bad things happen to you, it was not your fault that bad things happened.
i'm sitting with you & sending you gentle hugs