Life can be a Pain

Yes - I am thinking of going to bed and hopefully to sleep

It has been really great chatting this evening and I feel settled - thanks so much for that - I really apppreciate it and I am glad you responded to my tag to someone else

Actually - this sort of problem is not something I could share with someone if they were here - I just never feel it's appropriate to mention what happens here to anyone irl - what happens in the forum stays in the forum

After all - if I mentioned something to someone they might be in the same forum - that would not be good

But it's appropriate to chat with a fellow contributer

Dec

@outlander

Thanks @outlander

I'll catch up tomorrow and I hope - really hope - you are okay and you are able to get some sleep

Dec

Hi @Zoe7

I believe you are taking time out and I understand you reasons for doing so and I would do the same under the circumstances

I read what you wrote last night - I fully support you - you and I have discussed many subjects during the time we have known each other on this forum and I am sorry I was unable to post during the conflict last night - I was trying to work out how to respond but by the time I had figured this out and tried to contact you it seemed that a large part of the conversation had been deleted and you and left

Please tag me when you return and you are ready - you will always have my support. You are a very thoughtful and sensitive person and I know you try and included every one - something I understand and respect although I don't practise such an inclusive method myself

Sendind my love

Dec

Hi @Former-Member

I hope you are still around - I wanted to post something last night but by the time I was able to it seemed that a large part of the discussion had been deleted and I really don't understand what it was about.

But I care about both of you - and I wanted to assure you that the conversation between @Zoe7 and I that has taken place over a long time about people enabling other people had nothing to do with you - both of us are concerned about people talking about suicide and to my knowledge you never have

I took time out because I was badly triggered by these discussion and now I have decided never to read any of those posts or interact in any way.

So I really don't know what it was all about last night - Zoe has been my friend for years and will always have my support and I have known you for some time and you are a very kind person also and I have no quarrel with you

I was upset by what was taking place and I guess I will never know what happened and perhaps that's better. I hope you don't leave - there is no need for that.

I wish you the best and hope you will still be on the forum

Dec

I was upset by what was taking place and I guess I will never know what happened and perhaps that's better. I hope you don't leave - there is no need for that. ---- me too @Owlunar

Thanks @Shaz51

That's right - there is no need for anyone to leave and I wonder why people sometimes feel that way.

But we can take time out - that is a good thing when it is necessary

Dec

I just realised - I was married 54 years ago today

I am happily divorced and have been alone for over 30 years now

Today is a much better day - I am so much happier than I was back then

There is always a silver lining

Dec

I'm really glad to see you back @Zoe7

I really wish I could have said something to have calmed things down but for once in my life I couldn't think of anything to write - I am sorry about that

Dec

I appreciate the thought @Owlunar Thank you