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Life can be a Pain

Life can be a Pain

Hi @BlueBay@Zoe7@Former-Member@Faith-and-Hope@utopia@oceangirl@TAB@Shaz51@PeppiPatty

I know there are more people I could tag but maybe I will think them up as I go along - actually I already have

I think I need my own thread - mostly my problem is chronic pain syndrome - I damaged my spine with the sporting excesses of my youth - a long time ago now - and I managed to rearrange it when I fell of my pushbike in a wind storm nearly 22 years ago and that seems a long time ago now but there is nothing they can do except treat the pain - and I do have Section 8 medication and I see a pain specialist

And the pain has been worse lately and wears me down and I get fed up and very tired -

I have issues with my mother as well - and although she died 2 years ago I still have bad times now and again - she was abusive and as well as I know myself and her this can get to me at times - and this is another reason I opened my own thread

Then there is TS - my Toxic Sister - she was under my skin for a while but not at the moment

So yesterday I felt so bad when I went to see the doctor about my back pain - and my pain specialist has cut my medication back several times over the last few years and she has gone too far - and I started to tell my doctor - yes - I cope with the pain better since my mother died - but it's driving me crackers atm and so are the memories of my mother

So that's it for now - I have had trouble opening this thread for some reason but now I have - I will run my own story - I would like to think I don't need to but yes - I do

You are all such wonderful supportive people - you are my soft place to land - that is so true

And anyone I have missed I will tag as I go along

Lots of hugs everyone

Dec

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I’m so addicted to my phone. I know I’m bad. @BPDSurvivor

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@BlueBay @If being addicted to your phone means you’re bad, then we’re all bad!!! LOL... but seriously... try it. After my technology-free week, I’ll let you know how it went. Doesn’t start until another week’s time though. 😉

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I could try at night first @BPDSurvivor 😂 stop using it before bed

good luck. Would love to hear how you go.

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@BlueBay And I’d love to hear how you, or anyone else, goes with a technology-fast! Even if it’s 5minutes! Remember to start small or you may feel the effects of technology-withdrawal!!

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Hi @Decadian @Shaz51 responding to your posts from page 311 here. Re : Darwin weather. Most people consider there are only 2 seasons - wet and dry. In fact local aboriginal people say there are 6 - knock-em down (August,very windy), build-up (September to Oct or even Nov some years -hot and very humid), monsoon (December to March or April), run-off (at the end of the monsoon, when lots of water creatures breed up and the wetlands drain out to sea), magpie geese season (around April-ish), and dry season (usually May to July). So the official tourist season is from May to September and you can expect no rain and June/July slightly cooler days and evenings. Personally I love the start of the monsoon and the run-off periods too, having lived there 16 years this time around. (2001 to 2016)

Hope you get there @Owlunar - not sure which name to tag you with so I've used both.

When you are preparing let me know and I'll suggest some places to visit. It's much easier to enjoy the place if you can hire a car, otherwise you end up doing it with heaps of young backpackers.

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Hi @eth

I started here using the name Decadian but signing off using Dec - I liked it better. Then there was some kind of glitched and my account was closed so I opened a new one and went on using the same threads using Dec as my avatar-name and that's what happened - I don't have two accounts but somehow answer to both names. It's one of those mysteries of life

I surrendered my licence when I hurt my spine - I still get sudden painful spasms at times and when I get one of these for a moment or two I am off the planet with the intense pain so I am not inclined to drive again - a moment or two sitting in a chair reading is neither here nor there - behind the wheel of a car it would be a different story

Packpackers are a different species - I have seen them around - there are some strange people in airports - perhaps they are packpackers - I don't know - I have the feeling they hitch-hike though - not something I am about to try

But perhaps backpackers take tour buses - which is what I might try if I really want to see something - normally I walk around a lot when I am in a different city.

But yes - let me know what is interesting when the time comes which will most likely be next winter - July most likely - a good time to get out of Melbourne -

Another thing I want to do is to have a flight over the Kimberley in a sea-plane - that is high on my list and I would be doing that in July too - Australia has a lot to offer

Thanks Eth

Dec

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Australia is awesome. So diverse. I’ve been around the world, but there’s no place like home (Australia).

@Owlunar Thanks for your story

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@Owlunar

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Dear all,

Don't forget it is BPD awareness week next week 1-7 October 2019! There are events nationwide, so hopefully these cyberhugs can turn into real face-to-face hugs. You can also run your own event.

Check out stories from real people. Visit bpdawareness.com.au

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Hey @eth @Owlunar I was thinking we might go to Darwin next May for our anniversary. Hoping the weather will still be hot. Xx

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