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Life can be a Pain

Life can be a Pain

Hi @BlueBay@Zoe7@Former-Member@Faith-and-Hope@utopia@oceangirl@TAB@Shaz51@PeppiPatty

I know there are more people I could tag but maybe I will think them up as I go along - actually I already have

I think I need my own thread - mostly my problem is chronic pain syndrome - I damaged my spine with the sporting excesses of my youth - a long time ago now - and I managed to rearrange it when I fell of my pushbike in a wind storm nearly 22 years ago and that seems a long time ago now but there is nothing they can do except treat the pain - and I do have Section 8 medication and I see a pain specialist

And the pain has been worse lately and wears me down and I get fed up and very tired -

I have issues with my mother as well - and although she died 2 years ago I still have bad times now and again - she was abusive and as well as I know myself and her this can get to me at times - and this is another reason I opened my own thread

Then there is TS - my Toxic Sister - she was under my skin for a while but not at the moment

So yesterday I felt so bad when I went to see the doctor about my back pain - and my pain specialist has cut my medication back several times over the last few years and she has gone too far - and I started to tell my doctor - yes - I cope with the pain better since my mother died - but it's driving me crackers atm and so are the memories of my mother

So that's it for now - I have had trouble opening this thread for some reason but now I have - I will run my own story - I would like to think I don't need to but yes - I do

You are all such wonderful supportive people - you are my soft place to land - that is so true

And anyone I have missed I will tag as I go along

Lots of hugs everyone

Dec

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Hi @Owlunar, we miss you! @BlueBay has even started a thread for you. You put so much into your posts, heart and soul and compassion, - we so miss your presence. You did say ya busy, and sometimes have computer glitches, so here's to hoping its those reasons and you're OK.
Hope to chat soon, xox
Hi BlueBay, Teej,

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Hi @Former-Member@Former-Member@Appleblossom@Shaz51

Holidays are wonderful but it is good to be back - and we are in for another hot day so I will get my washing dry today -

How interesting to get back after staying by the ocean for a few days and finding that all my summer clothes are in the suitcase and need washing - I got a load pretty dry last night - I am looking forward to my own shower -

What good luck though - after having a very indifferent summer weather-wise in Melbourne - I choose to go away for a week when everything is beautiful - even hot in March. And over in Gippsland everything is really dry and there are bush fire warnings on TV every night

But the "Life can be a pain bit" - I look forward to Star Trek - 2nd gen - so much and there wered two episodes missed because of the Biggest Loser - ah - not good

And I had set my own TV to record all the shows I wanted to watch before I left - aahhhhh - a different kind of pain

Thanks for wondering how I was everyone - and for the best wishes - I will vaguely hint the next time I go away -

Oh but - while I was away and gd was checking on my cat - dd came and cleared my back garden - that was a wonderful surprise - it's just a little court yard but my little court yard - and it was over-grown

Dec

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There you are @Owlunar 🎉 Glad you had a good break and your dd watched cat & garden for you. If ya like me its good to sleep in ya own bed. And StarTrekNG a big fav of mine too. My son put the entire series on a portable hardrive for me. We're kindred spirits on another level. Enjoy settling in back home & thanks for checking in 💜

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Glad you had a good break @Decadian and your courtyard is looking good.

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Hello @Owlunar

soo good to see you my friend

soo glad you had a good holiday xx

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Hi @Shaz51

It is great to have a holiday and also - great to be back -

When I go away I walk for miles - and miles - and I chat to a lot of people and for some reason people think I have family where I am going or are amazed that I travel alone

But I would be unlikely go away if I did not go alone

One adventure I had several years ago was flying to Hobart and back in the same day to go to my cousin's funeral - it might have seemed a huge deal and I guess it was - but that's a day I remember every minute off

I hope your Mum has recovered from her surgery - I have been wondering about that

hugs

Dec

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Hi @Shaz51@Appleblossom@Former-Member@Former-Member@BlueBay

I got a few pics off the internet to show people Lakes Entrance - because I have rigged my phone not to get posts I can't send photos to my computer either - at least - I might find a way - but right now - here are some

This is the motel I was staying at - I had a view of one of the lakes from my room and I could hear the ocean at night

To give people an idea of Lakes Entrance here is an aerial photo - there is a footbridge crossing the lake that seems to run east in this photo - and I was staying on the edge of that lake

This is the view from my room - I got this pic off the net - I don't know those people in the photo - and the Lake was blue most of the time -

btw - I do have a story - when do I not have a story?

When my taxi turned up to take me up to catch the train I could not find my cat - I thought she was outside and I was worried and gradually became angry - but when my gd checked on her she was inside and I stopped being angry straight away and was just grateful - I love the cat but she can be really naughty

But when I got home - aw - she was so angry - she stood in front of my and meowed loudly telling me not to go away again - and then she meowed that same loud angry meow to go out side - then to come back in - then to go back out and to come back in - and got on my lap and jumped off and jumped on and she needs to have her claws manicured again so she had to spend some time in the bathroom -

I will go away again - in a few months

Great to be back - perhaps today I will have time to read other people's news

Dec

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morning @Owlunar

it is amazing , I did holidays by myself but with a tour group , hope that makes sense

but because you are one your own , everyone invites you to their table for dinner , and I love Cornwall in england , you can walk everywhere

mumis recovering very very slowly , thankyou for asking

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Oh @Owlunar, aww, your poor pooty tat sounds overwhelmed, misfiring in all directions lol, some kind of emotional crisis. Here last night, when my son & I came home from tea out, dog became so excited, barking and running back and fwd and under foot... bit annoying but so cute. I've noticed when i go out early, he wont eat his breakfast until I come back - fretting I guess because he normally can't wait. But they survive, tough little cherubs lol

Can't wait for your photos to come through, you have a great day today xox

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