Life and trauma

@Former-Member I'm so sorry for whatever you came home to. You deserve to not only feel safe, but be safe in your own home.

@MJG017 but do I really cos it doesn't feel like it 😭

@Former-Member Of course you deserve to be safe. Everyone does, and you're no different.

@MJG017 well that's that then.

Distraction time, if you are around?

You are so brave and so strong. What an inspiration. My heart goes out to you. @Former-Member

@tyme thankyou but that's really 2 things I don't feel right now.

What i did to deserve this?

Where did i go so wrong?

Why am I like this?

Why can't I just be normal?

Can I get through this and if so how?

So many thoughts and questions running through my head. I just want it all to stop for a while, to just be able to catch my breath long enough to just breathe.

@Former-Member You could definitely look at like that. Still, the job you have to do is one you have a lot of success in so far. But you also started to build a support netwrk around you and that will help you with the rest as you continue to grow that network

Umm... distractions.

Can you turn the tower upside down by moving only 3 matchsticks?

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These questions are more common than you think @Former-Member .

Maybe it is even 'normal' to think this at some stage or another in one's life? I know I have had all of these questions.

And that's when I needed people and communities like the forums to help me through.

@Former-Member

@tymeis right. I had all those questions for such a long time. I started to find answers by starting to trust the right people and listening to them. It allowed me to hear different answers than those that were coming from me and only me... and were always the same.

@MJG017

Yes I can. You move the 2 matchsticks on the bottom 1st and 4th up to the row where's there is only 2 then move the top one down to the bottom under where there's now only 2. Hope that makes sense 🤣